Why do I get so depressed sometimes thinking about something he's done, and then later be perfectly normal because I think about something else he did, but then start thinking about the terrible things and get depressed again?
2006-09-15 15:21:07 · 3 answers · asked by Lynnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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This guy and I like each other, but he was indecisive and seemed like he couldn't decide whether he did or not. So, I finally write a letter to him asking him how he really felt, and that I didn't want to be strung along, and expected to be 'with him only' if he wanted to see if there was better. The next time I see him he flat out ignores me. The next time I see him he seems a little nervous around me, but still he doesn't bother talking, the third time he refuses to acknowledge my presense. In the letter I made it clear several times, that no matter what 'happened between us' I wanted to remain friends. Some peoples have said he's just nervous, others said forget him.
2006-09-15 15:21:59 · update #1
At times I think I just need to be paitient and that it'll work out, and others I think about how's he's been acting... and it tears me up... I really want him to talk to me about the letter... I asked him to reply..and he is refusing.... I'm afraid to just start talking about it...I'm afraid I'll get hurt even more... I really love him.. and I don't know what to do.. should I wait it out, talk to him, let him go... but he was my best friend... and I feel a little betrayed.. because I never forced any of this upon him.. I know he's been kinda shy and nervous about 'us' but he initiated it... so why do that if he doesn't really like me.. or doesn't really even know.... Why do I have to care so much.. why can't I just put it out of my head forever, and forget that it ever happened and go back to the way things were..?!?!
2006-09-15 15:22:27 · update #2
look sweetie i was that way years ago but i straightened that up quick. what i realized was that why am i sittin here stressed out when he aint even bugging thats him enjoying a good day while mines was dull, besides why stress if im goin be in his face later on or the next day like everything okay look either you get out of it or be about it dont stress if you still goin be laid up you only hurtin yourself cause he goin do what he gotta do regardless men are men and woman must stand strong and show that it aint the end you know so stop stressin sweetie if you don't and can't trust him you dont need him in your life no way.
2006-09-15 15:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by zoequeenmiami22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the others and forget about him. In time you will find someone who wants to really be with you and will have no problem in telling and showing that they mean it.
2006-09-15 22:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always lovers can remain friends if he acts like that forget him and wait for him to come around to be your friend
2006-09-15 22:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by april a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋