2006-09-15 15:11:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No. She didn't tell you for a reason. You could maybe ask her how she's doing and if she wants to talk about anything. Let her know you're there for her, not that you were snooping.
2006-09-19 06:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't take that particular drug but I do take them for depression. My question would be were you really snooping or did you just need something in the medicine cabinet? IF you innocently came across it, and this is a good friend of yours and you CARE, then I would say go ahead and bring it up. She will make it known if she doesn't want to talk about it. But not if it's to be treated like she did something wrong, in fact if she is getting meds she's doing something right. I am giving you the benefit of the doubt in your intentions here, but there you go. If it happened to me like stated above and it was someone I wanted to know I would be there for, I personally, would ask about it. Good luck.
2006-09-15 16:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by LDG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Effexor is an antidepressant. Has it occurred to you that she may be taking this medication because she needs it? Why would you 'confront' a friend about having depression that she's getting treatment for?
2006-09-15 15:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Red 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you were a friend of mine I would be very angry that you were snooping in my cabinet and even angrier that you would "confront" (poor choice of word there - you probably didn't mean confront) me about it. Obviously, if your friend hasn't mentioned it to you, then it's personal and none of your business - or something your friend may not be ready to share yet. Depression is intensely personal - and hard to talk about.
If you are really just concerned about your friend; then keep this to yourself - there are ways to let a good friend know you are there for them if they need you. The situation shouldn't be forced.
2006-09-15 15:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Scottie 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Effexor is an anti-depressant. The fact that it's there isn't any sign of drug abuse or anything, so why confront her? She may or may not want to talk about it.
2006-09-15 15:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As long as the prescription was in her name, and not someone else's that she's taking without a prescription, then butt out and mind your own damn business.
If a friend of mine "confronted" me about a drugy they found by snooping around, they wouldn't be my friend much longer. A lot of people take antidepressants; it's nothing to be ashamed of, but if she didn't want to talk about it, then leave it alone.
2006-09-15 16:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by BasketChick 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I take effexor, it is no big deal. It helps with day to day things. Plus it makes me a stallion in the sac.
2006-09-15 15:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Superman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
say you did "confront" your friend, what makes you medically informed of her situation or condition, clearly she aware of her condition and situation, not you, so it would seem that you want to confront her more for your sake than hers...especially since you were just looking for something to find
2006-09-15 18:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by los ollie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were snooping they you have to make the decision of which is more important... Confronting your friend, or keeping her trust.
2006-09-15 15:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Wren 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
to be honest...its none of your bisness whats in her cabinet! why were you snooping in her cabinets anyway? i would say, yes, tell her you were snooping, but that your sorry, and concerned about her, extend an invite to let her tyalk if she feels the need, then drop it....if she wants to talk, she will...
good luck
2006-09-15 15:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋