From my previous questions, i have a gurlfriend who is 6 weeks pregnant today. After she found out she was pregnant, everything i do, calling her, irritates her so much. last week(she was 5 weeks pregnant), we got into an argument that night, and she got mad and left. That night, she didn't spend it with me. She spent it with her EX-boifriend. That morning after i saw her coming out of her ex-boifriend's place, she didn't want to see me. i tried to ask her why she went over there, she said that she needed someone to talk to her, since we had a serious misunderstanding the previous night. And that her Ex-boifriend was the only person that understands her in her school, cos we dont go to same school. She told me she never slept with him that night. Uptil now, we've been seperated for the one week, and still she still gets irritated when i call to see how she's doing, since she's carrying my baby.
I need help. I still love this gurl to death. And i dont know if she is cheating or not.
2006-09-15 15:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by PeaceMaker!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She told me that the dude's penis is never going to enter her vagina. Right now she is confused about taking some pills to take away my baby. I feel like dieing bcos of this.
2006-09-15 15:04:49 · update #1
well, her emotions are way out of whack, be patient and have a talk with her on how you feel, do it right before she turns into pregozilla. bring her something nice to make her feel good.
2006-09-15 15:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Eryc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try not to call her too much! Dont accuse her of cheating because that just shows that u dont have trust for her and u cant have a relationship without trust. Im sure she knows that u care about her and what to see how she is doing but pregnancies can be stressful, and girls get irriated easily!! Just wait till shes further along!! Just let her know u will be there for her and the baby. By the way how old are u? (cuz of the school!) My ex stiill talks to me and his girlfriend thinks theres something going on with us but theres not we just talk we feel comfortable that way and talk about things we cant talk to our boy/girlfriends about! Just trust her and dont pressure her. Good Luck! and Congrats on the baby! Wish u the best! ( about her taking the pills? what kind of pills are u talking about? Tell her this," if u can be responsible to have sex than u are telling urself ur responsible to have a child! Killing or getting rid of something that is meant to be brought in the world is the best thing ever!" Let me know about this will ya? tammym7283@yahoo.com
2006-09-15 15:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might cheating and she might not, but I can understand how she feels. Right now her body and hormones are working overtime. She is also thinking about the life she will no longer have once the baby is born. To her, it is your fault she's pregnant. So almost everything about you is irritating. I did the same thing when I was pregnant.
2006-09-15 15:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she pregnant..i bet shes; the one who;s confused.. you know if she should keep the baby or.. if she;s ready or not.. i mean since she is still in school ( i hope you mean college/uni, and not high school but anyway)..just give her sometime alone.. and while your'e at it bare in mind that the baby might not be yours or she might leave you for whatever reason.. i mean since she went to someone ELSE..NOT YOU .. for help then thats not the best sign for you..on the other hand she might just be upset from siha suddden event.. i say be xtra pateint with her.. for all you know she might be a mother of your kid.. (congrates if that was the case bytheway).. you could start by sending her flowers witha congrate on it .. just leave ut at her door step// wait a few days and send something nice.. give her time.. thennnnnnnnnn talk to her...hope you guys end up happy regardless what you decide..
2006-09-15 15:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Shes Pregnant.
2006-09-15 15:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
No wonder you need help. Everyone in this situation needs help. You do - your girlfriend does - and the unborn baby needs help. Thus, you ALL must be going through some hell...
Now with that said, please believe that what I'm about to say is not intended to sound critical toward you or judgmental. Actually, it's just the opposite. I praise you for coming forward with your problem.
Yet, I feel you are worried about the wrong thing. First you DO NOT need to be worried about what's going on with her and the ex boyfriend.
Your only worry should be with your unborn child. As in do you want it? Are you going to take responsibility for it once it's born? Etc.,.
Those are the questions you need to be concerned with at the moment - not whose she's sleeping around with.
Yes, I know that sounds harsh, but it's not meant to sound that way. I sympathize with your situation. I really do, but now you need to stop obsessing with you situation (as in faithful vs unfaithful) and start getting concerned with the situation of your unborn child.
You did not mention your age, but it sounds like you are young. I advise you to talk to someone. Talk to a parent, a teacher, a clergy member, a friend, or even a stranger - just talk to someone.
There are so many thing to consider in your situation and so many places that could help you. All you have to do is look for them.
At the moment you need to asses your priorties. Stop worrying about who your girlfriend is sleeping with and strart worrying about where your unborn baby is going to sleep. Do you get my meaning?
Take care of yourself and get some help with your situation. I know I didn't answer your question, but I hope I pointed you in the right direction as to what questions you should be asking...
P.S. As far as your girlfriend cheating? Maybe she is or maybe she isn't. All I can say is to give her the benifit of doubt. After all, pregnancy is a major life changing event. Maybe she's doing what I am advising you to do - find some support.
2006-09-15 16:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by C B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her some space. She is probably just as confused as you are. Why are you concerned if she is cheating?... The concern should be for the child. You aren't married your still in school (high school?) and who knows... this might not even be your kid. Birth control should have been used but since it wasn't now you need to focus on the right thing to do for this child if it is yours. I understand your feelings for the girl but deal with it accordingly.
2006-09-15 15:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by bugjuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the guy above said, "Dude, she's pregnant!"
Do you know what that means????
It means she will NOT have a period for 9 months!!!!
PMS will be a daily experience. Stay out of the way, don't cross her! Fend for your life!
Just give her some time, and be there for her. Show her that you love her.
2006-09-15 15:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by seatony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that this is happening. it could be her hormones. just give her some time. she will come back to you when she realize how much she loves you. she broke up/or he broke up for a reason. she wont go back with him.(i don't think) don't call her for a couple days and let her calm down.
2006-09-15 15:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wuzz @ her ex's house most likely she's as u say cheating. If she thinks that she'll get away with it she is dead wrong. 4 All u no It could be his kid! Im sorry.
2006-09-15 15:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋