Is it weird? I don't want to lose it anytime soon (not that I see it as that big of a deal anyways) ...
How common is that?
2006-09-15 14:53:17 · 23 answers · asked by Gahhhhhh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 17 and going strong!
Rock on, sister!
2006-09-15 14:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still a virgin for moral beliefs, then you should be very proud of yourself. Living in a world full of temptation can be very hard to pass up 'offers'. But if you have been one to stand up for what you believe in and people know where you stand then take pride in that! There are not many people who can honestly say what you are saying. Trust me even though some men only care about sex, you will find that one guy that respects you and wants to be with you because of the kind of person you are. Be proud of yourself because it is not weird at all. How many people can say they are still a virgin? You have an innocence to you that most don't nowadays.
2006-09-15 22:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's such a beautiful thing. Keep on going just the way you're doing now. There is too much that you'd be risking once you start to engage in any sexual activity and trust me, it's not worth the worry one bit!! It will be tough sometimes, but once you begin to hear all of the horror stories, you'll be glad you waited. I'm trying to scare you into not having sex, but I want you to smart about it. Educate yourself starting now and if you didn't already get it, try to get the new vaccine for HPV that will help to keep you from developing cervical cancer from HPV. Once again, I don't want to scare you, because only you will know when it's right. So take your time and with a clear head look into getting more informed. Talk to your doctor too =)
2006-09-15 22:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just turned 19 and still a virgin because i choose to be. But I don't think the reason should be is that because someone's parents say u have to (they may encourage u but not say u have to) or because of religion. I think it should only be if it's your choice. I do wish there were more virgins though because it would be more special than if a non virgin would take mine. Do what u want to.
Ur what everyone wants but can't have.
2006-09-15 22:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by baby doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very precious commodity. There is way too much 'free sex' these days resulting in unwanted pregnancies, vd and so much more negative stuff.
Just make sure that when you do become sexually active you know how to tell by your cycle when you're fertile, use birth control of some sort and always use a condom to cut down the chances of STDs, etc.
May God...The Great Spirit be with you :)
2006-09-15 22:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by x_southernbelle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be proud of that person to wait that long for that special moment. Its not really common nowadays because everyone is always sleeping around at a early age. But its good when you wait.
2006-09-15 21:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by ilovemybabies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not weird. You are perfect and God will lead the perfect husband to you. Congratulations for maintaining your temple in this sinful world we live.
Wait until marriage and encourage others to do the same. Be a light in the darkness.
2006-09-17 16:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Wildcat0695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r smart girl cause when u'll do it u wont do it just like that u'll do it for love what is the true meaning about the sex..Meaning that everybody forgets...Sex is about intimacy, love between two people, pleasure to share...Not some insignificant event
2006-09-15 21:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Lina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most of the Asians countries are still preserved those kinds of values. but personally for me.. waiting for the right person and be comfortable with ur own decision are the most important matters. most of the girls regret they rushing into things before and wish that they could save it for the best person.. me virgin too :P !!
2006-09-15 22:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by biri2putih 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, I'm proud of you. Don't give in to the peer pressure, It is not weird. I think it's great. I wish my son could meet you.
2006-09-15 22:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nice...;) just take it easy if you don't want it. Remember the choice has to be made by you.
Oh and BTW I'm 20 too ;)
but far from a virgin ;P
2006-09-15 21:59:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋