Everyone,literally everyone makes fun of me and it doesn't make me sad it makes me angry, really angry. And they don't listen at all i really don't want to hurt people but i can and will. What should I do?
2006-09-15 14:49:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are making fun of my hair and calling me names and saying things about me
2006-09-16 14:48:18 · update #1
Stop showing your anger at these people. That is what is fueling their zest for making fun of you.
A couple of things that work would be:
1) Walking away from the situation. Don't show any emotion, just walk away calmly.
2) Make a wisecrack about yourself, too. If you show the others that you can make fun of yourself, they will stop making fun of you.
3) Try making a funny comment about the person who is making fun of you.
if the above three don't work.....figure out who the leader is, and have a little heart to heart with them, alone. Make sure that they understand how you feel.
I done did good. I explained diplomacy first, and whoop *** last!
2006-09-15 15:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by seatony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well look I recently just helped my friend with a similar problem. The problem is NOT you dont change who you are for them. I understand you look for peer approval because im in high school too and I know how that feels. But you have to look deep into yourself and find what you like about yourself. Whatever it is they make fun of you for look at it in a different light. Dont change just find ways to help them maybe accept you for you and only you. If that doesnt work fool them. Go out and suprise them by doing something youve never done before. I cant really help you exactly because i dont know completely what they make fun of you for. So what it is it? Tell me so I can help you through this no one should have to feel like this. And you Absolutely should NOT go to violence or get angry or sad. Because showing emotion tells them that they have beat you at their game. Beat them at their own!! Show them that you are in control of the situation. Well I hope I helped at least a little bit email me @ Nikkimax0718@aol.com if you want to talk some more.
Nicole
2006-09-15 15:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off Hannah, what is it that they are saying, and what are they making fun of, ( your hair, height,living environment?) You truly didnt want to hurt anyone, take a minute and cool down, let me know what it is and maybe i could help you.
Krystal
2006-09-15 14:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by barbiegrl1386 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go to anger management..i know that sounds like..weird. but it'll probably help. you dont want to get mad and do something you'll regret and get in big trouble..just keep calm, and try to ignore them. a lot of people get made fun of, not just you..kids are MEAN. they really are..just know that you're better than them, everytime they say something mean.
2006-09-15 14:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jamiexx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are they making fun of you??? Damned fan can have them whacked if you want...let me know!!!
2006-09-15 15:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is it cuz people call you chewy and chewbacca the babonish whale??? or spaze monkey??? cuz if you dont i am sorry,,,,its just a joke that me,troy,mariah, and teagan made up...and "hannah" dont think you are fat cuz you are so not fat
2006-09-15 14:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then kick there a s s thats wat i usallly do!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-15 15:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋