OK...I have an ex bf moving in with me at the end of the month....last month we got into a fight where he said he would love to be with me but wasnt going to move back, and how he is scared of messing this relationship up. That the only reason he talks to girls where he is, is because they are there and Im not. Anyhow, circumstances changed and he needs to move back, asked if he could move in with me for a couple months until he gets on his feet. Well, the other nite he told me that just because he will be here does not mean i have to quit talking to guys, and that he wouldnt be offended if i get a boyfriend. I told him that I was not expecting anything to happen between us. He then said, we will have to see what happens, you dont know what could happen, and then he made it clear that he is choosing to live with me over his brother. So WTF is that supposed to mean??
2006-09-15 14:11:08 · 17 answers · asked by I_<3_thewheel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell him to go live with his brother. Why do you want all that drama that he's bringing into your house??
2006-09-15 14:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sincerely surprised you're letting him move back in. That alone tells me that perhaps on a subconscious level, you need closure and you've not gotten it; or perhaps its that, you are interested in seeing if there's anything left of your old relationship, because obviously, that's what your ex is thinking.
Without knowing if you're dating some one new, and the fact that he keeps talking about the other woman in his life, I have the feeling you two are dancing around each other, each struggling to catch a glimpse of what brought you together in the first place.
My advice is to move on. If the relationship ended, it ended for a reason, and that reason should not be so quickly forgotten. Don't let this guy move in if he's got some where else to go. Make the boundary lines blazing clear, Hun. You won't be able to move on if this guy is LIVING WITH YOU!
Either way, best of luck :)
2006-09-15 14:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by Blissbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes testing you in some kind of way, either that or hes trying to keep the relationship open mean you can talk to who ever and so can he if he chooses. now you and i know having a guy in the house something is bound to happen even wore he and ex and you know what the sex is like im thinkin thats what he meant by you dont know what might happen hes right you guys could start a family in to months... just kidding. i think its clear to you and him that he might be actually try to get it back in some sort of way go with the flow
2006-09-15 14:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay this is weird but i get the feeling that he is sayin that he wont be offended if u got a bf is because he would i mean why say it .. if it didnt matter to him he wouldnt talk about it!!! i think he is slowly tryin to get back with you but he doesnt want to make it obvious... i mean come on why would he choose to live with you over his bro... k.. i think u should try again i mean u obviously have some sort of feelings or u wouldnt let him move in think about it!!!.....
2006-09-15 14:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by da1Nonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what this means is that your is a free loading individual who plans on using you until you have nothing left how can he say to you that he doesn't mind if you have boyfriends but at the same time you two may end up together he doesn't love or respect you i think the worst thing you can do us let him move in i say send his *** to his brothers house and let him deal with the drama
2006-09-15 14:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but the fight you just went through is still showing. Give it some time but don't go out with anyone, even if he does. After awhile he will know that you still like him. goodluck anyhow
2006-09-15 14:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shorty he got u open, it's the old bf trick. If he's around and you still got feelings you ain't going to date. He has made it a relationship with options but the options r in his favor. If he wants you he can have you, if wants somebody else he can do that. wake up baby girl.
2006-09-15 14:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ju Lover Supreme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you've been misled by liberalism if you think it's okay for him to move in with you. And it means that this whole situation is weird and that you both need to see a psychiatrist.
2006-09-15 14:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's not sure what he wants, he is playing head games with you, and he needs to find his own place to live or go to his brother's house 'til he figures it out. He's not even back yet and you're already confused! :(
2006-09-15 14:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋