I am in high school a freshman. I am kinda shy but I really like her... thx for helping... Some advise for what I should do to get myself to talk to her. Thx
2006-09-15 13:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by glad to help ^-^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to her. tha worst thing she can say is no. there will be more girls to come. talking to her is the only way she'll kno. n plus what if she says yes
2006-09-15 14:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by -->KiSSES<-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also in highschool(senior). Girls are a wonderous thing :p and yes they are hard to talk too.
So..
1st) Tell yourself that it is not the end of the world if she says no. This builds confidence in yourself. What is the worst that is going to happen? Most guys think its the end of the world. So she says no and you move on.
2nd) Become confident, all that takes is doing something for the 1st time. Its scary to jump out of the plane the 1st time, after that your fine.
Now to approach the girl..
3rd) Most girls hang out in groups. At lunch or whenever, go up to her and ask if you could have a moment alone with her. If she says no say "Alright well when you get a sec we'll talk". Dont say it aggresively, that makes them angry, just say it lightly. If she says yes then take her aside and just jump from the plane. Ask her to the movies(EASY FIRST DATE, NO TALKING JUST MAYBE HOLDING HANDS IN THE THEATER!). After the movie, or wherever u decide to have the date talk about the movie, girls like that, shows them that you care about them. Inquire about her tastes, likes, dis-likes, hobbies, family etc, but dont get over dramatic, tell some stuff about yourself etc etc.
If on the other hand she says no to the date say "Ok well maybe we can hang out some other time". This initiates that you are still wanting a date. She might be busy, have plans, or just not want to date you.
There is one other method you could use if she says no. Its called being a comedian. Go about this the right way or you dig your grave :-P
When she says no you say,
"Ok, well I will see you at the movies at 8", walk away and as your doing that turn around and smile at her. Girls get curious, and they like stuff like that.
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-15 21:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a freshmen girl and i know what you should do ok you should go up to her while yall are alone and ask her a simple question maybe something like "hey how is your day going" just something really simple and easy nothing that is gonna take 4 hours for her answer. just be casual youl do fine oh and no you won't regret it all your freshman year the other guy is full of ****
2006-09-15 21:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by class of 2010!!! rock on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the chance .... All she can do is say no she don't like you that way. Then do two things if she turns you down:
1) Continue to be nice to her (don't do anything to hurt her feelings)
2) Move on with your life get over it.
If you continue to be nice it will let her know it was LOVE and not LUST and one day she may change her mind and want to talk.
2006-09-15 21:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think Of What You Wanna Say Like(Example)
Hello What are you doing?
How are you?
Today is nice dont you think?
Bye! See Easy
2006-09-15 21:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Tristan E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it and get it over with
on a side note if u get rejected u will have to live with that for the rest of ur freshmen year no presure.
go for it it cant hurt
2006-09-15 21:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by The Ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it. if you dont, another guy might come along and take her and you will be feeling like an idiot. you olnly live once !!
2006-09-15 21:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by sx_rx_rocknroll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just go up to her and tell her how you really feel!!!!! and you shold email me back so i can talk to you more at pinkprincess7689@yahoo.com
2006-09-15 21:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋