I just started in a new place, and I really like this guy, but he doesn't necessarily think of me in a romantic kind of way and I would really liek to change his mind.
2006-09-15 13:51:08 · 11 answers · asked by dorkestgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't change the way someone feels about you, we have free will for a reason. You can be persistant and be a friend and maybe if he gets to know you better then something will develope naturally. But don't force it or you will push him away. Find someone who's as interested in you as you are in them and it will save alot of heartache.
2006-09-15 14:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to pressure someone to like you, and he is obviously not interested in anything more then a friendship right now - possibly ever. I suggest going on as usual and have him as a friend. Moving on will give him the opportunity to really decide if he is interested, or he will remain your friend. No matter what you win - he will be a friend. Friends are hard to come by!
2006-09-15 13:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by LaDonna J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really change a guy's mind.....If he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you....You can't make anyone like you, no matter what you do, if you're not their type then that's it!!! I suggest you look for someone else, and maybe keep him as a friend, I mean why spoil a good opportunity to have a "nice guy" as a friend....Just find someone else...Good Luck
2006-09-15 14:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change it (only he can). My advice is to keep being his friend and know that sometimes best friends become lovers. If you try to change him (or yourself into something you think he likes), he may lose respect for you. Then you won't have a friend or a lover.
2006-09-15 14:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him. If he likes u , u'll know, but if he doesn't no matter what u do, he won't look at u like as a woman he wants. Sorry, think this is the true, but it's only my opinion.
2006-09-15 13:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change it because it is only him that decideds what he's gonna do with his life and what girls he wants to date... that is the exact same thing that happened to me with this guy that i use to like.
2006-09-15 13:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like youre ok with what he said and dont take it personally. kinda show him shom special looks at him over ur shoulder.
2006-09-15 13:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah drop some hints, dress sexy-er around him and flirt! softly bite your lip and give a sexy look with your eyes when you look at eachother. or somthing
2006-09-15 13:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were a high cute dress or skirt,show some brest,lip your lips,wink,smile,talk ,
2006-09-15 13:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you he will pay attention to you . and maybe it will go further, if he isn't interested, you can do nothing. it will be or it wont be.
2006-09-15 13:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋