I want a boyfriend SOOOO much!!! Yes, you can say I'm desparate. I am! I really want a boyfriend. I mean, I always though peopl stared at me because I'm ugly, but now I realize I might be pretty! Uhg, I want a boyfriend so badly!!!!!! If you were at my school, would you date me? http://myspace.com/thekatesteinberg Please look at all the pictures, 1 is fancy, 2 are regular. Thanks.
Seriously, why hasn't anyone asked me out yet? I'm in 8th grade.
2006-09-15 13:49:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like, I met this really cute kid at a batmitzvah. We hung out at the batmitzvah's house and played spin the bottle. My friend told me he liked me and I DIDN'T AND COULDN'T believe her. She dared us to makeout. It felt weird so I didn't, but I kinda wish I had. He said I was beautiful and skinny.
2006-09-15 13:51:54 · update #1
I think your very pretty but don't be so desperate for a boy friend in time you will get one ( be picky) also being pretty sometimes means people are afraid to approach you because they think you wouldn't want someone like them. Just be yourself things will really start to change once you get into high school. I promise!!!
2006-09-15 13:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to get to know you to date you. And you are an attractive girl, though beauty is an internal thing. Take your time. What do you want a boyfrined so badly for? You make having one sound like the getting the newest I-Pod or XBox 360. Bear in mind boys are awkward around girls at your age. The prettiest girls in my school all had NO prom dates. All the boys were too intimidated and insecure to ask and assumed they already had dates. Give it time and in the interim work on being the best you possible. Never sweat a man, child. Make them sweat you.
2006-09-15 13:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Toxic Buddah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looked at your picture and I dont see how for one second you could think that you are ugly!
However, having a bf is not completely based on looks. It also has to do with chemistry and compatibility.
I think you are trying too hard. Sometimes when you are trying so hard to find something you miss what is right in front of you!
Just relax have fun with your friends, go to sporting events. go to the mall, dances, etc(where boys will be) and maybe see what happens when you get into 9th grade. High School! upperclassmen. I think you will be pleasantly surprised.
2006-09-15 14:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by kimberleibenton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God's sake...take a breath. You are in a rush and you are going to make yourself crazy. You are just an 8th grader. Some guys, myself included, don't even start thinking about dating until they are closer to driving age. It is tough to look cool when your mom has to drive you places. In the meantime, get involved in activities that would also interest boys. Make yourself available and accessible so that you can broaden your circle of friends. The more social you are the greater your dating oppotunities will be when the boys get ready...and I have seen your picture, they will.
2006-09-15 13:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
work on yourself... you are beautiful, don't worry about what other people think. nobody will realize you're beautiful unless they can see that you realize you are. be confident, not desperate. i was desperate and have a lot of regrets because of it. chasing after and catching boys is not all it's cracked up to be. there's a lot of pain involved if you chose the wrong ones... they don't show that in the movies, but there is.
2006-09-15 14:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by jenn w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl..you have a lot of time left to go out with guys... just wait..and the right guy will ask you out.. don't worry about it.. i used to when i was your age.. but i gave up..and now I'm in my junior year of high school and I'm going out with a guy that totally loves and adores me.. so don't worry about it...and don't ever think that you are ugly..cause you are very pretty...
2006-09-15 13:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to offer yourself this way...you might end up hurt...wait for the right person till you mature a bit.Don't expose yourself to vultures and delete this post.
2006-09-15 13:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are adorable...my son is in 8th grade i bet he would like you. Dont rush into anything honey...you got your whole life ahead of you. You are still so young.Things will happen for you in time. Just be yourself.
2006-09-15 13:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cuz beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... Maybe what they are staring at has nothing to do with your looks?
2006-09-15 13:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would buut no one ever wants to date me. No girl has ever wanted to date me. But I have thought about it lots. I've never had a girlfriend, nor have I ever dated
2006-09-15 13:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋