She's insecure, or thinks that something in your past is driving the decisions you make today. Maybe instead of criticizing her (not saying necessarily that she doesn't deserve some of it), take the time to analyze why she might be bringing this up. See if there is anything you have done to foster the insecurity, and if so, work on it.
2006-09-15 13:50:40
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answered by Anonymous
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I think its a insecurity issue with herself and also jealousy. She really shouldn't be bringing up your past relationships in arguments. Thats not going to solve anything. Well i hope for your sake that ceases. Have you explained to her that it upsets you when she brings up that stuff? Well good luck.
2006-09-15 20:53:46
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answered by Fi 2
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You need to talk to her, when you are not having a argument, and say, lets get this settled, once and for all, and then we do not have to bring it up any more. And if it happens, say I thought that we settled this issue. I expressed I was sorry, what more do you want me to do?
2006-09-15 20:52:11
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answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6
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There are a few reasons, but the one of insecurity stands out most.They are probably evaluating trust issues. and also that you are not the virgin her heart is in search of.
2006-09-15 20:57:05
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answered by Conway 4
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Insecurity, trust, and lack of self-esteem....the need for validation, unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it other than leave that person (not saying you should, but that you're not gonna change her, you'll try but it ain't gonna work)........
2006-09-15 20:51:59
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answered by cub6ib9 4
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definatley insecurities. Unfortunately some girls/women never out grow that particular trait!! Good luck!!
2006-09-15 20:52:56
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answered by Jackie G 3
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Sounds like she has insecurites. maybe she thinks you liked your EX better or she thinks your Ex is attractive enough to still be competition
2006-09-15 20:51:53
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answered by snooz11 1
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Insecurity will do that... Your mate is insecure, and may be ignorant to boot.
2006-09-15 20:49:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Not fair fighting. Tell her that.
2006-09-15 20:50:21
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answered by Anonymous
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insecurity and jealousy
2006-09-15 20:49:07
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answered by Anonymous
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