My girlfriend thinks I need to do more sweet little things for her to show my love, I am a gentleman and open doors for her, have stopped at her work place and left love notes on her car, have sent flowers to work, among other things, but I'm not real good at thinking these things up. Want to know some more simple spontaneous things I could do.
2006-09-15 13:38:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date me! I'd love all of those things you are already doing! Regardless,
make her an open faced sandwich, and make a heart with the mustard, kiss her in front of someone, announce loud and clear that you love this woman in a public place (restaurant waiting area, grocery store check out line, etc) get the window paint for cars and go to her work and paint on her window hearts and your initials. If she doesn't get it after all of these attempts go back and reread my first sentence! Good Luck!
2006-09-15 13:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by occasionallyrowdy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all hard there Sir: At what age are we talking about? Nice drives to the country are nice, then may-be you 've done enough? Has she been married and what has happen if we can ask I am worried my-self I got always a handful and they all cause some sort of a headache but I guess best answer is to follow how you feel and not? I really like to know the age and farthur as to if young love just starting out, or been in the situlation for some time trying for a girlfriend, if you don't mind me asking?
2006-09-16 19:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey no problemo!
one of the sweetest things i can think of is calling her princess! like NEVER use her name... always use petnmaes! sweetie,baby,darling,sweetheart,honey,hun,princess,angel..............she will LOVE it....yea love notes r sweet jus write them for no apparent reason,also leave her emails or texts in the morning telling her to have a great day and diff ones at night teling her to have sweet dreams...and during the day email her or drop a note syaing u miss her....and when u see her hug her tight and say "God i missed you"
try to be natural and not so impersonal,yea sending her flowers and leaving her notes is great,but flowers r better when u show up at her place when shes not expecting u and giving them to her personally........and lovenotes r sweeter when they come more often.
ohh.....and kiss her hand!!!!!!!!!!!!! yea it might sound old fashioned n crap,but girls love LOve it! and do keep being a gentlman,she likes that too...........oh and call her.....call her n when she gets on the phone say"omg it's u..." she'll b like...."yea...sooo who did u think it was?" n then u b like "yea.......i'm jus glad ur there and all,i miss u....i jus had to hear ur voice"....jus say sweet stuff like that
she will love u forever!
believe em i'm a girl and i know what these little things mean to me,jus remembr the best gift u can give her is your love and little words of comfort and encouragment and love,always be intrested in what she likes to do and thinks about,ask her what she dreamed about last night,choose a star with her....watch the sunset hand in hand....the smilpe things r what really count
good luck hun!
i hope this helped!
2006-09-15 20:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when walking somewhere, and you see a flower on the sidewalk, reach down and pick her a flower and hand it to her[ be careful of thorns on roses]
when watching tv or a movie, and eating a snack, feed her [popcorn, or candyl
write her a poem and mail it to her [ yes in your own handwriting ]
online, send a e mail or greeting card every day
massage her feet, neck and back
wash her hair and comb or brush it for her
help her with chores or errands, help her fold her laundry, or do laundry for her,
these things will get you started for a minute....
2006-09-15 21:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg date me lol jk
ok hmm... a greeting card for everyday of the week spritzed with your signature cologne. (cheaper version--> make one on the computer) ... you could also... bring a single flower to her everytime you see her and tell her how that flower cannot compared to the sheer radiance and beauty she exudes with every whisp of hair fluttered and every breath let out with her angelic glow
2006-09-15 20:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ximomila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems youra little shy...you keep leaving thigs for her, butyou dont do itin person.do you 2 have a love song?maybe you should sing for her outside her window in the middle of the night, that would be killer sweet.
2006-09-15 20:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by D.C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one spontaneous, romantic thing that my friend did to me was we were talking and he just randomly kissed me. It was the most amazing kiss ever!
2006-09-15 20:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Avia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bf made a scrapbook for our anniversary. He cut out pics, & wrote funny captions. It was the best gift I've ever gotten from him, and it was relatively inexpensive! :) Good luck!
2006-09-15 20:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by ladypersephone21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you spoiled her, its her turn to be spontaneous! Thinking she wants lots of attention now.
2006-09-15 20:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by mouse3801 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
man...your girl sounds demanding...
maybe time to reconsider...
i try to send my girl letters to her house, i send her nice emails, i genuinly try to find her interests and focus on those. i buy clothes for her, ask her to lunch on the fly. i try not to get just flowers, ask her what he favorite types are and get her those.
oh yeah, learn to cook and make food for her.
2006-09-15 20:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Scott 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋