basically, i'm getting sick of my boyfriend. he never seems to have time for me but then is ALWAYS talking about us being together and maybe even getting married which i am NOT interested in. his friends are awesome and i really get along with them but they're kind of really loyal to my boyfriend nd i don't know what to do.
2006-09-15 13:15:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
their loyalty when end really quick once you sleep with them. i find gang bangs to be an effective method as well. take pictures and conveniently leave them out so your ex-boyfriend will find them. all his friends will love you and tell him to stop being a ***** and get over it.
2006-09-15 13:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by jonny bravo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret will be in the way you ditch the boyfriend. Tell him that you're not quite ready for the future that he has planned out for the two of you and that you'd like to be friends for a while until you know exactly what you want. Tell him you still want to hang out with him (and his friends) just as friends. If he is open to that, and chances are he will be because he wants to be with you so much, he'll eventually see that you and he aren't meant to be. During that time you've cemented yourself in with the friends.
I've been there and done that. Met the guy, dated the guy, loved his friends, broke up with the guy, still friends with his friends, 10 years later.
2006-09-15 13:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. I have had a lot of experience with this. I'm a guy and no I have never been a girl so sorry about that one, but I have a good answer. Just tell him what you are thinking! EXACTLY what you are thinking. I have had girlfriends that tell me "its not working out" and I'm like "Why?"... they wont tell me. Honestly I would have been much happier if they would have at least let me in on what was going on. This should be a surefire way to fix the problem and i know it would be best for both of you.
2006-09-15 13:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by stratocollier 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It feels like your buddy has some transforming into as much as do! whilst she does issues that injury your emotions, i think of you could desire to tell her and you have each and every precise to be injury and indignant. You deserve better than to be taken care of like this. If she apoligizes and says she would have the ability to no longer do it back, then attempt to forgive her. yet whilst she keeps it up, locate some new acquaintances to dangle out with. yet I would desire to tell you, I even have been acquaintances with my maximum suitable buddy by using fact the 6th grade (so because it relatively is a 30 twelve months friendship). there have been classes whilst i substitute into no longer an extremely sturdy buddy to her. And there have been cases whilst she substitute into no longer an extremely sturdy buddy to me. yet now and back you could forgive one yet another and nevertheless be acquaintances over the years, and it relatively is a sturdy feeling to have somebody which you would be able to anticipate whilst kinfolk facilitates you to down or you decide on somebody to talk to. So whether she is blowing you off now, a twelve months from now she would apoligize and say she is sorry for a fashion she taken care of you. She would merely be going a sprint boy loopy precise now, or perhaps her pastimes have replaced and yours have not.
2016-10-01 00:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you wanna ditch your BF cos HE dsnt have time for you? Then you say your not even interested in marriage??? Well seems like your the one not interested in him , and should get outa his life anyway! Seriously hate girls that do this. making it sound its all revolving around them.
Dont think his friends should be yours after you break up, cos you dont really deserve friendship, when you dont even know the meaning of loyalty in the first place.
2006-09-15 13:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by DudeWantsAnswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he comes up with a topic of both of you all being together (Dont exactly taunt) but just say in a polite tone -- abt him not having time for u... see his reaction... sooner or later he will realize what you are trying to say... then dont call him wait for him to call .. if hes thinkin the same tht u wont call... then definitely it will get into his brain why u wont call.... tht time he'll miss you the most and call u back sayin how much he likes u... :)
best of luck
2006-09-15 13:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by so sick of love songs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well umm... thats a hard one maybe you should just talk to your boyfriend about whatever is going on tell him whats up if his friends were really cool with you they shouldnt have a problem still talking to you after you do what you do eith your boyfriend if they dont talk to you for whatever happens with your boyfriend then just ignore them do what you gotta do you know? hope this helped alittle sorry if it didn't
2006-09-15 13:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) They are his friends.
2. ) They're loyal to him
3.) If you ditch your bf, he will feel they are disloyal to stay friends with you
4.) If you can just "be friends" with your bf, having broken off in a respectful and kind way, they might all stay friends with you.
2006-09-15 13:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lean on Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you have other friends because they will be loyal to him and not you when the breakup occurs. Just like if you were married--his friends would be his and your friends would be yours. Sorry.
2006-09-15 13:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still want to be friends with his friends you have to stay with him because if you leave him that means your leaving his friends too because u said it urself their loyal to him.
2006-09-15 13:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋