I was really stressed out and I didn't want to take out my anger on him so I wanted to take a break so that I could sort some things out with my life. He got mad and now he won't talk to me.
2006-09-15 13:15:46 · 16 answers · asked by sexychick1349 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's mad because a "break" is just fancy talk for "we're through"
2006-09-15 13:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats someone you want to be with why not try to work your problems out with him just think when you get married you cant just up and get a divorce just because you are stress being in a relationship is about helping one another out in a time of need now he probably feels like that is a stupid reason for you breaking up with him
2006-09-15 20:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its rather hard to form an opinon not knowing the details of your relationship or what time frame your talking about with your break but I would say your being up front and honest about your feelings which is a must in any relationship. And he should respect your wishes even though he may not agree with them. Be secure about your relationship and not let it bother him.
2006-09-15 20:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been? He's just a little hurt right now. Unless he is extremely stubborn ( to the point of stupidity) or he never cared for you at all, he'll come around. He just needs some time for his feelings to rush out so he can be rational again. Then he might realize you were trying to spare him some pain and frustration.
2006-09-15 20:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah for when someone wants a break they usually want to break up just sit down and clear things out with him and let him know that you are very interested in him still but just needed a time out for yourself to sort things out
2006-09-15 20:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl bye.. i wouldn't even care.. sounds like he cares for u but he is being real childish and immature right now.. if ur going through some things then he should be able to understand and give u the space u need and still be there for u as a friend til u can get through what ur going through..
but u need to understand how he feels as well, cause a break is not so necessary when ur stressing unless he's causing the stress.. u could've just asked for space or sometime to urself or even tried talking to him to see if he can help u through it..
let him vent and now u need to give him so room to breath cause u don't need to go chasing after him.. u made ur bed now lie in it...
2006-09-15 20:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you were wrong for looking out for your own best interest. if he loves you he will come around and realize that it is best for both of you that you have a clear head . it is best to do it this way rather than be fighting constantly because you need room to breathe. besides a 'break' does not mean the same as 'break up' so, he should give you your space.
2006-09-15 20:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 u did this, did u break/ or separate on bad terms?--Ask urslef this.. did u tell him how u were feeling?-- Was he stressing/ or adding stress 2 ur situation, was this a unhealthy relationship, could i hav waited, to c if i needed to break up with him?- Is/ was there someone else, that caught ur attention, and u dont want to be guilty so u just took that "break" from ur b/f!
2006-09-15 20:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by re r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, I just read your profile page and saw that you asked a previous question about having equal loving feelings for two different guys.
If that is your idea of "honesty in a relationship", I think I can see why he was mad and I don't blame him. Be honest, or this will become habitual.
2006-09-15 20:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, relatioships should allways be At-will. If you don't have enough love for him to get you through the hard times then you're doing him a favor by not dragging things out.
2006-09-15 20:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋