I have a crush on a guy I work with, but he's gay.. I feel so shallow liking a gay guy when there's so many straight ones to choose from!! I don't know what it is about him, but whenever I decide to try to find someone new, I see him and i can't help but talk to him and invite him out...we're friends which makes this so much harder...the worst part( or maybe the best part) is I think he likes me too, I know he's gay, I do!! but I can't help but wonder why he treats me the way he does...he treats me so much different than the other girls he talks to and he always comes to talk to me at work now..about..nothing really!! I don't get him!! and he's always looking at me , but whan i point that out he says he was looking at something else.. What do you think??
2006-09-15 13:11:48 · 9 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow just wait it out and see what happens
2006-09-15 13:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by kissie623 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is looking at something else! Gay guys can be great friends but don't think he will change because of you. Also gay guys do know a good looking girl when they see one. So if you're pretty maybe he is looking at you or maybe he likes the clothes you wear to work and is staring at your outfit wondering if he has any accessories that go with it and is trying to figure out how to ask you if he can borrow it!
2006-09-15 20:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is gay and he treats you so well he probably thinks of you as a good friend. Do not ruin this relationship with crushes. It is not worth it. Gay guys are attractive to us because most of them are in touch with their feminine side where straight men are not. Gay guys can usually relate to us better than straight guys. You need to find a great straight guy for a bf and keep this one for a good friend.
2006-09-15 20:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should just go out to dinner one night and blurb out the question just be like so... i know ur gay and all but what with all the mixed signs?? and then he will probably say umm i dont knw what ur talking about and then explain and see what he has to say i mean if he is ur friend he should tell u the truth and well instead of waisting all this time thinking abour it just do something about it or ask him if he has ever had feelings for a girl and if he says yes ask if he has feelings for a girl right now and if he says yes u know its u!!! hope i helped
2006-09-15 20:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Belive me it an't sick to have those feelings. Most Gay men have that sentivity and understanding that we are looking for in are ideal person cause i keep gay and bisexual friends and they are the most understanding and refreashing people to talk to i know some act like divias but I'm sure you know some women who act like that either on the street or on the job and they think the world revolves around them. Most guys are afriad to show there true emotions like it's a crime against the macho code or somethin and then they turn around and want to know everything about you to flip the script when ya'll get in the argument so they can get their way
it an't strange at all, but he just like him some dick
2006-09-15 20:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by windy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best if you cool off the friendship and move on. Leopards don't change their spots.
2006-09-15 20:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay guys like to be around pretty girls to get close to other guys,,,,not unless he's bi-sexual
2006-09-15 20:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out with him.
2006-09-15 20:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by misery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him. his dick wont stand up if you strip down in front of him.
2006-09-15 20:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋