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My girlfriend has kissed other girls in the past, but we weren't dating then. Now that we are, I feel like if she does that again I will get threatened and jealous. She says it is only fun, but I feel as if it is distributing her affection to other people instead of me and it makes me crazy. Should I embrace this or feel jealous?

2006-09-15 13:10:07 · 21 answers · asked by habaceeba 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

Ask if you can watch .... you lucky, lucky man.

2006-09-15 13:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 1 3

There are some people who are attracted to both sexes. It could be that this is just experimentation with her psyche. Ultimately, she may decide on a same sex relationship.
You might be the victim of a trial run. Her girl friend that she keeps kissing could be her choice in life. If that is the case, there is nothing that you can do to convince her otherwise.If that proves to be true, you should be happy for her instead of rejected ,because she has found her true love and ultimately happiness.

2006-09-15 20:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by itisushere 1 · 0 1

If ur g/f is kissing other females and has u at the same time- that means she has her cake and eating it 2!- that is not fair to u, exspecially if u 2 r n a committed relationship, and yes that is cheating!!- someone on here mite tell u go for it, but u dont want that!!- u want to share ur love, with someone special, if u feel that u r not getting that from her, maybe u should go separate ways, it seems lik she is doin her thing! and not respecting ur opinion. Have u told her how u felt?-- if so and she still continues then she doesnt repect u!

2006-09-15 20:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by re r 2 · 0 1

You should tell her how you feel and i know that its not just for fun i used to do that until i knew how my boyfriend felt and i grew out of it but just tell her you dont feel comfortable with her kissing anyone else not even if its a girl... shes probably bi and wants a girlfriend too

2006-09-15 20:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I wouldnt embrace it unless you truly felt comfortable with the situation. She might be saying this to you because she knows it makes you uncomfortable and she is trying to get a "rise" out of you.

You should also tell her how this is making you feel. She may not realize that it is making you uneasy.

2006-09-15 20:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by kimberleibenton 4 · 0 1

Don't be threatened. None of those girls can give her what you can. It is best if you let her get out her "extra affections" in this way. She will love you for giving her the freedom.

2006-09-15 20:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by ZPE 2 · 0 1

Grab the web corder if you are a perve, join in if you really don't give a crap about a good relationship, get rid of the nut if it is none of the above. she is immature and can't make up her mind what she wants.

2006-09-15 20:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by el 4 · 1 2

If I were you I would stop kissing her, cuz I don't want anyone else's germs on me, if I didn't do it intentionally. If she wants to have little flings with other girls, tell her to go ahead, but without you.( maybe then you could have her to yourself!!)

2006-09-15 20:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

You should be a little wary, every relationship I have witnessed who did this didn't last. Keep your eyes open.
CT

2006-09-15 20:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 0 1

It is not appropriate when you have a signifigant other. She needs to stop this behavior if she wants a relationship.

2006-09-15 20:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by jusme 5 · 3 1

Grab the video recorder

2006-09-15 20:11:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

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