My friend and I started a conversation about women wanting a guy more if they know he is in a relationship. I say leave him alone, show some respect because I wouldn't want to be in that situation. My friend says it doesn't matter, girls just want guys knowing that they can't have them.What do you say?
2006-09-15 13:01:20 · 22 answers · asked by diana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no...it really depends on who is the guy..
2006-09-15 13:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I actually agree. I feel that way about some of my male friends at times. Its freaking weird, cuz I know I would never look twice at them when they are single. But maybe its the fact that you yearn for a relationship and its right there in your face all the time. Thats the only way I can half way explain it. Though just cuz I may have that feeling of wanting to be with him, I would never ever in a million years act on it. Having the title as the home wrecker is not really that amazing or all that attractive to me. Though some women wear it well.
2006-09-15 20:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I think it has more to do with the fact that most girls care what other people think. If a guy has a girlfriend, he has her "stamp of approval," which to the other girl means that he's probably better than some single guy, since he's "been approved." Most girls are afraid of being embarrassed, socially, than anything else. They don't want to start dating some guy, and then have people say that they can't believe what a loser she's dating.
2006-09-15 20:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by Speedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes for some strange reason this is true. I guess if they are attached that means that they are a good man or they just get off on the challenge of getting him away from the other woman. Then once they have got him they drop him like a hot potato because the challenge is over.
2006-09-15 20:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda true in that women like a challenge, but then it would only be a challenge and not really for the man. Not true in that, if the girl was serious of the guy, then why would she want another girl in the picture?
2006-09-15 20:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad but true, there are some wicked women out there that prey on men who are in relationships. As a woman in a relationship who's been cheated on before thanx to women like that...it feels horrible! Knowing how it feels, I'd never do that to another couple.
2006-09-15 20:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women want to prove to themselves they can have any man they want, so they often pursue the marrieds. Both sexes are guilty of this idiotic behaviour, as a lot of men like to seduce married women, too.
There is rarely a happy ending however, as once they put that notch on their bedpost, things can go downhill rapidly.
2006-09-15 20:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well every girl is different but hey doesnt most people want what they cant have?? think about it.... i think that if a girl knows that they cant have the guy that they want they go for it because they see it as a challenge and a small fight with the girlfriend
2006-09-15 20:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-15 20:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It goes both ways. Guys want girls more when they have a b/f. Its the whole when it rains it pours...you have a g/f or b/f and everyone is interested in you, but when you're single...thats it...you're single and theres no one
life's a b*tch isn't it?
2006-09-15 20:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by reena_ree86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that your friend is pretty smart. Once a girl notices that the guy she kinda liked is interested in another girl...we get confused and hurt and we want him even more just because we knoe he deserves us more than this otehr girl...cant speak for evry girl but as for myself i always want what i dont or cant have.
2006-09-15 20:03:58 · answer #11 · answered by Angelwings87 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋