I am 28 and newly single. I have a date this coming up week with someone who is 5 yrs younger than me. I guess what I am wondering is have things changed since I dated last? Should I expect to hold hands, kiss him or what? I don't want to go to fast, I just want to get to know him. Anyone have suggestions???
2006-09-15 12:51:11 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through this a few years ago. 1st date - holding hands & kissing, no more. 2nd date - maybe a little hotter kissing but give yourself something to work up to. Don't sleep with him for at least a month. After much comiserating on this topic with friends it seems that players will only play for about a month bofore they give up. After a month of attention then it's safer to move into more adventurous stuff. Do make sure that you're exclusive though, these days it's not implied.
2006-09-15 12:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by 0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone told you bondage and a trampoline were the new first date requirements would you ?
Gawd I hope not !! Do what feels right for you. Move at your own pace.... If you feel rushed ... say so...if he's really interested in something more than a warm wet spot he'll listen and take the time to move at your speed.....
Your the Governor here ...set the pace !
2006-09-15 19:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually on the first date maybe its a kiss then ya'll call each other and go out again. or just hang out!
2006-09-15 19:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better get somebody older because soon you gonna ask different question in first place.
Be realistic just keep distance make new friend and don't do anything stupid how you describe.
2006-09-15 19:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him wear the pants.. let see where it takes you.. or a lot of younger guys are attracted to older woman because they want to be taught.
2006-09-15 19:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advise you to get to know each other first it looks like you are interested in each other and see how it goes from there but let the guy make the first move .
2006-09-15 20:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by luvlifeshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today it's pretty slow
first date is basically McDonald's then back to your place for some sweaty, hot, wet, fast, hard sex.
No pressure
2006-09-15 19:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you set the limits.
2006-09-15 19:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.. dont do anything you're uncomfortable with.. see where it goes
2006-09-15 19:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sky is the limit....go nuts.....wiggle and shake that ***
2006-09-15 19:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by shaffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋