My best friend and I like the same girl. I said that I would let him go after her and I would wait till he is done. He doesn't think he has a chance and says that i should just go after her. I know that if I go after her he might be hurt pretty badly even though he says he doesn't care. What should I do? i could go after other girls seeing that i'm the starting quarterback at my high school.
2006-09-15 12:40:15 · 14 answers · asked by Qb10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EEEeeewwwwww aren't you just FULL of yourself!
Well, mister starting quarterback, maybe your friend and you both should just do that girl a big favour and forget about her. She is definitely better off without either of you. And what makes you think that she would deign to stoop to the level of associating with you? Not all girls are attracted to jocks, you know. Some of them can't stand the attitude that you're displaying right here for all the world to see, and would shoot you down sooner than date you!
2006-09-15 12:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both go after different girls. Don't let some girl break up what is probably a really good friendship. Besides if you did go after her you would definitely be hurting your friend even though he wouldn't admit to it. Bigger issue though is if she ever found you both liked her and she might, if she was that type of girl, put you guys against each other. By saying you are a better kisser or your friend listens more. And before long ya'll could be fighting each other over some chick that could be laughing her behind off at breaking up your friendship. That wouldn't be fair to either of you, so pick seperate girls and let that one go.
2006-09-15 19:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious you don't want this girl very badly, as you are already lining up what you are going to do if you can't have her. Let her go- give your friend a shot. It seems he has the right kind of humility that most girls actually find attractive. My odds are on him getting the girl in the end anyway (sorry).
Most girls prefer those that are aware of their failures to those that use a label to make themselves look better (ie: I'm the starting quarterback...).
Good Luck for the future :)
2006-09-16 02:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow... so you could have any girl on the sole reason you are the starting quarterback at your high school.. must be nice. Shallow but must be nice. Oh well.. toot your horn dude.. things will change when you either A. Mature or B. get out in the real world. Oh and to answer your question.. let him have her until he is done, then you can have your turn.
2006-09-15 19:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you both should just find another girl to "go after". You don't want to ruin a good friendship over approaching a girl that in the end might not end upp pursuing anything with either of you! It's not worth the agrivation and ruined friendship.
2006-09-15 19:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by butterball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are so confident you could get other girls then do it. He's your friend, don't let a girl come between you two.
2006-09-15 19:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much do u like this girl? if not a lot, just dont go after her... why ruin a friendship for some random girl?
2006-09-15 19:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are confident enough to think that you could have any other girl, then let him have her, and go after someone else...
2006-09-15 19:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should both let her go. It's fair.
Girls will come and go.
Your friends will be there always.
2006-09-15 19:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he says it OK then go for it honey! He can't hold it against you if he said it was OK.
2006-09-15 19:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥**Me**♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋