I have this friend who is a Muslim and had has this really bad crush on another Muslim girl. He thinks she's the one. Here is the tricky part, in Islam you are not supposed to love a girl until you marry her. They don't believe in a "dating" system or anything that can bring you close to it, for example: talking, and even eye contact. He says its for the best for both parties. This way you don't get 16 year old mothers. But I digress. He's content with this problem. He just wants to know what he do for her as being a nice guy. So ladies or guys, what would suggest to my freind in order for him to make the impression that he's a nice guy to her?
2006-09-15 12:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could just be her friend... if he's a nice guy in general then it shouldn't be a problem. Then maybe eventually they will realize they belong together, and marry. I think that is kind of weird though. I always thought you married people because you loved them... not to love them. I wonder if american marriages would last longer if we tried that.
2006-09-15 12:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since "dating" is not permissible; I"d suggest communicating his emotions, interests, dreams, etc. via loveletters. No-body else would be entitled to reading them except her, right ? When you express your thoughts honestly and describe your life details in a letter; there will be parts of you that just jump right off the page and into the readers soul if there was meant to be a connection. Sending her a little gift (bracelet charm, picture you painted,..or a souvenier from your trip, something in her favorite color)---Anything that reminds her that you think about her nomatter where you are is a nice touch. If God meant for those two to be together someday than THEY WILL......To get the nice-guy-image:be polite, respectful of her choices, soft-spoken, kind, optimistic, trusting, sympathetic, honest and fun to be around.
2006-09-15 21:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that is pretty tridky,Maybe he could be friend her and then later arrange a marriage in the future with her so their will be no confusion ,but the really tricky part i think is that its a crush so it could be a case when the girl is not feeling him back so it could make things complex ,but as long he continues to be a good friend maybe she might consider marring him when ever there religion permets it
2006-09-15 19:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by windy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about writing back and forth to eachother. That way they can know eachother without having to have physical contact.
2006-09-15 19:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should send her something or mabey a letter if he can't do that simple stuff like holding doors open for her
2006-09-15 19:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by Quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can go and ask her for engage if she ok go to her parents and told them[that the answer there no other answer i think]
2006-09-15 20:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by SKY I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what????
2006-09-15 19:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by ¤†_3§a_Tri§T3_†¤ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋