There's this guy that I really like,and he's one of the most popular guys in the school,well I'm not that popular.Anyway,we have 2nd period together and we flirt ALL the time!He told my best friend Whitney,who happens to be his cousin that he really likes me.Well we got to know each other and we have a lot in common,and it seemed like we're perfect together!This went on for like 2 weeks...he told Whitney that he wanted to date me,but he wouldn't ever ask me out.Whitney finally asked him if he even liked me or if he just said that,and he said that he "did really like me and wanted to date me,but that he didn't know". (this was on a Friday)Well the following Thursday he asks out this girl he knows (who's in my 1st period)and guess what she happens to be one of the popular girls, but everyone tells me that I'm prettier than her.I don't get it,Tue.(wasn't there Wed.)he was flirting with me like crazy,and then he asks out that other girl.Is it b/c I'm not popular or what?!
2006-09-15 12:33:46 · 20 answers · asked by Cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*He didn't believe Whitney when she told him that I liked him, so I wrote down a a piece of paper that I like him and he wrote well you know what ... I like you to!
*What did he mean when he said he liked me and wanted to date me but didn't know?
2006-09-15 12:36:08 · update #1
*Yesterday this guy told me that he was going to kill me b/c I wouldn't give him the answer to this homework question (he was joking of course, we're friends) and the guy I like jumped all over him ... he told him off big time!!!!
2006-09-15 12:39:35 · update #2
*I'm friends with most of his "popular guy friends", it's just I can't stand how the "popular girls" act so I don't talk or hang out with them!!!
2006-09-15 12:48:20 · update #3
Yes it is because you aren't popular. He has an 'image' that he needs to keep and he wont keep it if he dates an 'unpopular' girl. That is why he dates the 'popular' ones... Or he is just afraid of commitment. That he knows you two would have a good thing, so he is scared to ask you out. And dates girls that he can be with, but without fear of being with them for a long time.
2006-09-15 12:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just love these complicated ridiculously-long, meandering, single-sentence questions that no one can possibly answer! How the hell can we offer any kind of reasonably good response when we have no idea about the situation?
Thank god there is a character limit, or we have to read even more of this pathetic tale.
Dear Yahoo Answers: Please create a new category Teenagers with Relationship Angst (Caution: Only for the mentally-challenged)!
I mean, for God’s Sake, don’t you little morons have homework to complete? Go to bed already!
2006-09-15 19:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i think he wants you to ask him out not him see 91% of guys based on statistics i read in a magazine wanna be asked out instead of asking out the girl himself he probably just likes you so much that he thinks by doing this you'll talk to him but what hes not realizing is that hes hurting innocent girls like you and the girls hes asking out. either that or hes a playa simple as that
2006-09-15 19:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by gottalot2learn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that this guy fears what his friends might think of him if he was to go out with you. My advice is to be thankful, and wait; the right one will come along that will like you because of you,not because of social status.
2006-09-15 19:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang, that's messed up. Well, I think he doesn't want to ask you out because it wouldn't be "cool" for him to date someone that's not popular. Don't get down about it, just get you another man.
2006-09-15 19:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably won't believe me for years to come but even if this guy asks you out you shouldn't date him. 1. you should let HIM come to YOU. You have enough value without chasing guys and 2. If he doesn't have his head on straight enough to ask out the person he prefers, trust me, you don't want him AND that won't change any time soon.
2006-09-15 19:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Here Today 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it may be that the other girl is an easier target. He may think that you are out of his league - ironically. That you're actually someone worthwhile so it makes him edgier. Who knows? I don't personally know him. For all I know, he may just be a jerk. Don't worry too much about it. If you really must know, it wont hurt to ask him.
2006-09-15 19:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well this as happened to me before.
tis girl really liked me and started flirting with me and i iked her too.
then she started dating someone else to make me jealus so that she knew i really liked her.
the guy just might be testing you to see if you like him.
heres the main advise slap the bitc* from first period and ask the popular guy for a date
do it sista!!!!
2006-09-15 19:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by daniel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hon if this guy dnt like u for who u are then forget him am sure they other nice blokes out there that fancy u and u like them and i bet if u give those other guys a chance u will find one u gonna really like and in no time forget the other popular guy
2006-09-15 19:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lady D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you are not popular
you should get a real life -instead of making up this load of crap
read your question and realise how pathetic you are
2006-09-15 19:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋