How can I stop being a bimbo?

Question

I act really ditzy all the time, not on purpose and I think my greatest qualities are my boobs ,instead of something smart, guys think its cute now but in a few yrs I think i'll just look pathetic

Answer 1

Pay attention in class and ask the teachers lots of questions.

Answer 2

Try taking a public speaking class. It's all about how to look and act professional while up there giving the speech....you might be able to gather some tips on how to present a more mature and polished self in every day life. Try and remember where ever you are and who ever you're talking to exactly how you would like them to see you. Always be yourself, but charming is sometimes so much nicer than "cute" and always better than "ditzy". As for your boobs, make sure they are covered and try not to bounce them when talking to the guys....and you're right in a few short years acting ditzy and using your boobs to get the guys will not only look pathetic, it will be!

Answer 3

I would suggest the old line "think before act". I am sure you can be clever and intelligent if you desired to. Perhaps you act the way you do in order to attain more attention from the guys?

Slow down and think about what you are saying or doing. Just before you say of do something, think about how it'll be responded to. That will help you drop the "ditzy" act and be seen as more responsible and mature. Something that I think you are looking for in your relations with others.

Answer 4

realize that you dont need to be a bimbo to get attention and be confident....

people respect a decent girl more than a bimbo

although a bimbo might get more attention, it doesnt last for very long.

you are probably just really flirty sometimes, but the great thing is that now you recognize it... so that means you can do something about it.

Thats great that you know ur best quality, now know it for yourself instead of flaunting it everywhere....

Answer 5

Hm..good question. Keeping your legs closed would be a good place to start. Stop engaging in sexual relations. Practice the word..no. Boobs are great. But have some decency. Not everyone wants to see it. And sometimes, its better to leave something up to a guy's imagination.

Answer 6

Stop living in the moment and keep in mind that at some point in your life you will eventually settle down and have to "explain" this behavior to your mate. What may seem like fun now could hurt your chances of finding a desent guy who loves you for you and not just for your awesome boobs. :)

Answer 7

Study history and talk about the Neolithic revolution, Napolean, WWII, The Treaty of Versailles, the Magna Carter etc..

Answer 8

Show confidence in yourself, as confidence always bestills respect. If you forget about thinking of yourself as a bimbo and more of a valuable and respected person you'll be on the right track

Answer 9

I think the key word here is "act." So stop acting and get real. If you are smart enough to know what you are doing, you are certainly smart enough to know how to do a make over..so start making.

Answer 10

travel. think. become worldy and learn about your surroundings and bigger world problems instead of your own problems. look beyond today and into your future. dont get wasted or party every night. think about what you want to do in life, what you want to get out of it. only then when you have more knowledge, and know yourself better will you become unpathetic. Guys will appreciate and respect you more this way, because when you do get older you can't rely on your body.