Their excuse is that they're too nervous or not ready.
2006-09-15 12:24:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The couple are "allegedly" virgins.
2006-09-15 12:30:49 · update #1
I think its halarious
2006-09-15 14:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are virgins and will have sex on our wedding night, but I say it's natural to be a little bit nervous, though if you actually feel you aren't ready then you aren't ready to be married.
2006-09-15 16:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they are a virgin it can be quite awkward. This is something that really should be discussed before marriage. Also its not an excuse its how they FEEL! I can't imagine not having sex on your wedding night but I can understand the feelings that go with those fears.
2006-09-15 12:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by anjelahoy 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was too pooped to have sex the night of our wedding, but if they're not ready after the wedding I'd be worried. If they're too nervous, then go slow and be gentle!
2006-09-15 16:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that after a day of preparation, ceremony, partying, and travel to the honeymoon destination, for a couple of inexperienced people to be tired and then presented with the pressure of "that", was probably too much for them. How much passion the two have for each other will soon show up. Give them a chance to really be alone together, and solidify their relationship. I'm betting it won't be long before you're being called to babysit for them.
2006-09-16 05:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage doesn't mean ready for sex.
I think it is something to be respected and not pressured. One can think they are ready but when put on the spot, it is a complet different thing and sometimes they realize how unready they are for it.
Things should be comprimised and taken slow. Once the partner is relaxed and comfortable, then both can take the step more.
2006-09-15 18:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would think that after the reception you both would be so horned up that you would want to devoure each other for hours. You are supposed to make hot love on your wedding night, only a few excuses that would prevent it. Im too drunk, ok one of you is passing out....or headache.....being tired is no excuse.
2006-09-15 21:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their not ready to share themselves with you emotionaly, physically, and mentally. Then their not ready for marriage. That's how I feel. I respect the whole waiting thing but the whole purpose of that is to make sure the person you are marrying is the right one. Am I wrong?
2006-09-15 12:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Yolanda M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are one of the couple what difference does it make?
If you are the future spouse of this person take it slow. Try to convince them not to make any pre-judgments. Then after the wedding is over, & your in the hotel room convince them with your body. It will work out fine.
2006-09-15 12:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by ee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is only the business of the couple in question... if they both are nervous, working it out together will ultimately make their relationship stronger!
2006-09-15 20:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by wahine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they are nervous they cant have sex anyway because the female will be too tight umm down there, of-course. i suggest going to a doctor, or taking a chill pill.
2006-09-15 16:29:34 · answer #11 · answered by seker s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋