As many times as I've been on here asking questions about my ex-boyfriend....we STILL "talk." Let me just say, we're JUST FRIENDS, under his request. He's the one that dumped me in the first place!...and he KNOWS that I had a hard time getting over him, so he kept his distance & established a friendship..until last week of course.It's majorly hard to get over someone who sends me flowers and calls all the time, nonetheless, kisses me and says I love you. I'm so confused. I'm tired of games. He TOLD ME (subtly) HE STILL DOESN'T WANT TO DATE ME CAUSE I'M "NOT HIS TYPE!"(a load of bs if you ask me)..yet when he does this sweet stuff, I feel myself falling for him over and over again. I'm totally lost right now. Do guys like this get a thrill from being chased? Am I some sort of challenge that he feels he has to..o what's the word..succeed in?
He acts like he wants me, but he won't let me HAVE him because I'm "not his type."
Silly thing is, his gestures remind me why I still love him
2006-09-15 12:20:27 · 2 answers · asked by damsel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just knows you and what you like and is keeping you on the back burner until he finds someone better, even though you and i know he cant replace you, he is holding on to you while he is looking and up to now its been working... lose him, he is just using you, he already dumped you once, why be second best.
2006-09-15 12:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is confused maybe he is trying to figure thing out in his head i have been in your shoes i did still want my ex back until i met some one new i even new she had moved on with another relationship keep your head up you never know. like i said maybe he is confused himself
2006-09-15 19:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋