I recently ran into an ex for the first time in about a year, and have since been hanging out with them on a casual basis again several times a week. My feelings for them have come back even stronger than originally. I don't want to mess up the friendship we have rebuilt over the last few weeks, but I want it to become more than a friendship. They also just recently had their heart broken by another person and I feel like if I move in now it might cause some problems.
2006-09-15 12:10:58 · 10 answers · asked by chachi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I recently ran into an ex for the first time in about a year, and have since been hanging out with her on a casual basis again several times a week. My feelings for ther have come back even stronger than originally. I don't want to mess up the friendship we have rebuilt over the last few weeks, but I want it to become more than a friendship. She also just recently had their heart broken by another person and I feel like if I move in now it might cause some problems, cause I don't want to be the rebound guy.
2006-09-15 12:19:52 · update #1
Why do you refer to your ex as "them"? Is there more than one.
2006-09-15 12:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being a rational observer to the situation, in other words look at this as if you were a total outsider seeing what is happening. Feelings are not facts.
2006-09-15 12:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by knightcruiser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops caught you by your mistake of word usage. Your feeling are torn between two people. That is why you are using the word Them, instead of him/her, whatever. Or maybe you just don't want us to know your sexual orientation. Anyway that's beside the point. There is no correct answer in the game of love. Who knows?
2006-09-15 12:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by The Lonely Skywolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love its more the need to comfort because they are hurt and you feel a slight bond because of the past don't act on your feelings just be there and listen as you have been and if it is truly meant to be they will make the move not you and then you will know its real.
2006-09-15 12:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok take ur time and dnt rush into things be there for them and the rest will happen if sumthing is meant to happen again, but if things didnt work the first the chances of tehm working again is well..... hey try it might work this time but jus take ur time and let thigns happen naturally dnt force them to happen!
2006-09-15 12:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lady D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be about 14 or 15, your brain hasnt developed fully, come back in 5 years
2006-09-15 12:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be there for them support them now and once you feel like they are starting to be okay maybe yo should tell them how you feel .
2006-09-15 12:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by rayray17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest to him/her. Explain your situation and prevent yourself from hurting yourself and probably hurting him too. If they want you back then so be it. If they don't want you back but instead they want you as a friend then let it be so.
2006-09-15 12:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by shkabaj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it would so just be friends and enjoy!!!!!!!
2006-09-15 12:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask me if i care ?
2006-09-15 12:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋