I asked out my friend almost a year ago and she rejected me. Since then we have become quite close and I'm starting to think I should give it another shot. I really like her and I may love her. We go to colleges that are an hour apart. I don't think she wants a boyfriend at this stage in her life but I so badly want a relationship that is more than friends i.e friends with benfits. So what should I do? Would trying to kiss her be a good idea?
2006-09-15 12:06:01 · 13 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not push her into anything. Make other friends, date other women. It sounds like you have a good friendship, and it is really not worth risking that just for a relationship that may not work.
If you don't think she wants a boyfriend, don't push it, let her come to you. Be there as a friend, be there when she needs someone, and eventually if she comes to feel that she wants more from you, she will ask.
2006-09-15 12:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dud if she says that she is not ready for a relationship then you better not going her decision cause you might also lose the friend ship that you have I know it mey be hard when it comes to you you are probably samying how about me if you are saying that then if you say you love her and she is not ready at this moment when the time for her comes you have to be the first person she thinks of let her come to you on her on time give her some specae be the special friend be there when every she is in need be her self get in to shame just for her allways stay at her side and I garenty you that you won't loss when she changes her mind and if you are allwasy there for her needs then she will eventualy change without much time to spend.... Good luck but remember I told you and I know that you are saying who is he to say this but believe me I have been there
2006-09-15 12:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you she has rejected you once she may do that again. If she has stated that she doesn't want a reationship maybe she doesn't or just not with you. Keep being friends you can casually mention something about wanting to be in a relationship with someone (not nessisarily her) and see her reaction.
2006-09-15 12:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. if she said no a year ago then she sees you as a friend. you will totally wierd her out if you try to kiss her and she sees you as a friend. why not try the other approach. spend less time with her. pretend you have another girlfriend, see if she gets jealouse. if not, then you need to move on.
2006-09-15 12:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by coffeebabyea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe feelings do change but if she said no then i don't she will change her mind cos sometimes ppl are better off as friends than lovers, and dating her mite just not work and may therefore put ur friendship in jeopardy!
2006-09-15 12:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lady D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would, ya. sometimes if you ask a girl out & she thinks about it everything would change. but if you just lean over and kiss her in the moment, its kinda sweet and romantic & she'll realize feeelings she didn't knew she had. unless she already had 'em, then its a win-win situation for you
2006-09-15 12:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont't think just going up and kissing her is a good idea. but go up and ask her out. if your really close, ask if she thinks of you as more than just a friend. good luck!!!
2006-09-15 12:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by nw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her your feelings. You dont want to miss your chance. Do it before someone else comes into her life!~
Good luck!
2006-09-15 12:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just wait until she seemes dat she want s a boy but at dat time hurry so u can get next to her b4 another one gets her
-LaLa
p.s tell me wen dis works
2006-09-15 12:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about trying to meet some other girls
Then if she's around later, you can hook up with her
2006-09-15 12:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋