there is this girl that i got rejected by because im not good enough for her. now im very depressed
2006-09-15 11:41:40 · 18 answers · asked by blackbeltcc4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't sweat her.... there are ALOT of girls in the world. she was NOT the right onefor you... you are good enough... she is the one who is not worth it.... be glad that you are rid of her...also, feelings are not facts.. the way you are feeling now will pass... good luck
2006-09-15 11:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she really know you? If not, she shouldn't have made the assumption that you're not good enough for her. That just tells me that she's too full of herself to be able to see the good in anyone else. If that's the case, you're better off without her. Life is too short to get caught up in depression over something so small. I'm not criticizing you, but you should really consider getting off your butt and working on the goals you have in your life and not worry about those people who will tell you what you are and aren't.
2006-09-15 11:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find a soul mate (98% of people get married) so go out there and find the right person. What do you like about life? What are you interested in? What is your passion? Go and join a society, a club, an orgnisation. Save the planet... You will find someone doing the same things or perhaps you will talk about these passions in a bar and find someone who thinks these things are weird and that is your soul mate. The girl you lost was NOT your soul mate. you just dont sound that keen on her, sorry... you though she was nice but... find someone really right.... Good luck.
2006-09-15 11:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by jamestagg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said something like that to you, then she definitely has a problem with her self esteem and confidence and she sounds like a *****!!! Don't be depressed, do you honestly want to be with someone who would say that to another person!!! That is just plain mean, and don't worry one day she will get what she deserves.
It may seem like the end of the world but one day you will look back at this and say "WHAT WAS I THINKING!!!" and it will not be a big deal.
There are many fish in the sea, and I am sure you will find them!!!
2006-09-15 11:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Punjabi_Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this as a l e a r n i n g experience,
and if you felt like what she said was true,
then now you have something to work on.
Make this a beneficial opportunity for yourself.
Show someone else that you are good enough to like.
and put on a happy face :)
2006-09-15 11:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay we all get rejected that is part of life it is not that you were not good enough for her she was not good enough for you she was not the one the right one will come along i have had this problem before it will get better just look at it like you were to good for her and that is her loss not yours and she will regret her decision do not let some stupid girl get you down there are plenty of fish in the sea just keep fishing you will catch the right one
2006-09-15 11:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 significant judgements to make in this occasion youthful guy... your first.. kill the bus driving force. Or better yet... blow up the bus and kill all those little bastards who're tolerating this bullshit... On a extra extreme notice... you will desire to take a seat via her besides... there are no regulations that say you won't have the ability to take a seat via specific human beings... if she tries to assert something approximately how your sitting next to her.... say your merely attempting to socialise with acquaintances, something she'll by no potential have by using fact she's a fcking bus driving force and has chosen to make no longer something of her existence by using fact she's an incest toddler and her entire kinfolk FAILED... or you could desire to easily purchase a vehicle andchronic your self to college... power your hoe with you, and perhaps, via your fifteenth birthday, you would be gettin hand jobs on your back seat. sturdy success emo youngster.
2016-10-01 00:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are as good as everybody else. I know it effects your self-esteem to get rejected. Be happy she rejected you, she sounds shallow. Wait until someone that appreciates you for who you are comes along. In the meantime, do some nice things for yourself and try to stay busy doing things that you like or that will improve your self-esteem.
2006-09-15 11:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't be a p-u-s-s-y - there are many other vaginas in the world
2. Get some confidence
3. Get a personality
4. Get a job
5. Keep the job
6. Bathe regularly
7. Brush your teeth every day
8. Be confident in approaching
9. Act like you really don't care if she's interested in you or not
2006-09-15 11:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens all the time.
Don't get upset over it, there's plenty of other girls.
If you aren't completely ready to state your feelings to another girl, or there isn't another girl in mind, then just wait for a bit.
You'll get over her and how she hurt you.
It just may take some time.
2006-09-15 11:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, you are not the first and not the last to have this happen. That is life, and one day when you get older, you will get the choose and she most likely will just be someone trophy wife.
2006-09-15 11:43:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋