My cousin is dating this guy who uses her 4 everything and now asks her to marry him??? First he cheats on her with her best firends of 10 yrs..then her new bestfriend of a couple months then with her own sister not once but twice.... Im sure theres a few in between...She is supid and knows he did it and blames it all on the girls.....Should i even stay around this bc its trully screwed up...Am i wrong to care??? She has no car but he makes her buy him a new one and she doesnt even have one....bc he doesnt know how to even change oil...peice of dirt..Is it wrong of me to cut her off bc i really dont want to be around screwed up people like that...Am i totally justified....Plus theve only been going out 4 2 years....Plz any comments etc..thanks...ps i know its not my life to live...
2006-09-15 11:28:00 · 15 answers · asked by I dont know everything ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ohh and she still says yes and he is still cheating
2006-09-15 11:31:11 · update #1
No im not into him...i have my own family and she is way younger than me..i just trully luv her and dont want to see her get hurt....
2006-09-15 11:46:15 · update #2
If you have told her, leave it at that!!!
2006-09-15 11:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got a brother that does that to women all the time..I tell them he is using you...you will just get hurt...they don't listen and get hurt every damn time
he has 5 kids from 5 different women..he don't work...he lives in a motel room...I hate to say it there are a few women out there that has no brains...and of the 5 ...3 took him back more than once..not twice..but 3 times and some of them more..he cheats...steals,,,,,hit's...they don't learn...
But be there for her when she falls...look her striaght in the eye and say I told you..and I don't want to hear it..
2006-09-15 11:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is addicted to a bad relationship- she can keep suffering- and the crap will continue- let me guess- and she will do it again and get another loser until her light comes on- and says- hay! I don't deserve this - I deserve better- she n-eeds help- but can't make her- pray hard- let her know you care- D
2006-09-15 11:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her exactly how you feel. If she is in denial then leave her alone to get hurt. But since she is family comfort her and be there for her when she gets some sense in her head.
2006-09-15 11:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Redina 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your not wrong for that at all its just that you dont want no drama when it comes down to it if she hasnt seen him for that peice of sh1t he is let her find out on her own if he has cheated on her more than once and she has stuck around she's asking for it
2006-09-15 11:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by mija~chula 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to cut friends and family off when you see them deliberately doing something to hurt themselves. tell her you love her too much to see her being used and hurt by this guy. leave the lines of communication open by telling her when she comes to her senses you will be there for her.
2006-09-15 11:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know, that girl is so in love that she's blinde.
I think you should defenetly talk to her...
but if she doesnt listen to you...
stop insisting, back off...
and just leave it alone.
The only one who can change her mind is her self .. not anybody else.
She'll have to learn the hard way...
2006-09-15 11:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Damn! She really needs to dump that loser! Hey, man if she is stupid enough to put up with it though then it is a lost cause. Evidently she is not gonna listen to you.
2006-09-15 11:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I DONT KNOW HOW TO START ANSWERING YOUR QUESTION DEAR....BUT I WANT TO BE HONEST WITH YOU AND DONT GET ME WRONG PLS.....DO YOU LIKE THAT GUY TOO? OR WHAT? I DONT KNOW WHY I'M ASKING YOU THIS.....BUT IT SEEMS THAT YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR THAT GUY...IS THAT RIGHT?
I MEAN I COULD BE WRONG....BUT THE WAY I READ YOUR QUESTION....THERE IS JEALOUSY AND INSECURITY.
ALSO ITS NOT YOUR PROBLEM IS HER.....
2006-09-15 11:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen to me...people are going to say to mind your own business...but do u want ur friend ot get hurt? no!! so sit down with her and talk to her! woman to woman..
2006-09-15 11:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it
2006-09-15 11:30:21 · answer #11 · answered by frankmilano610 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋