I know sex is out of the question, but what about things like kissing(with tongue), feeling up one another, fingering...and whatever else you can think of.
And please, no one attack me, I haven't done any of these things.
2006-09-15 11:15:43 · 13 answers · asked by sky_raider16 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm not Catholic, but I am a Christian (Seventh Day Adventist).
2006-09-15 11:29:36 · update #1
none of the above. that would show disrespect to your future mate. a peck on the cheek is the only contact i can think of that would be ok, and thats depending on the circumstances.
2006-09-15 11:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you'd be up for everything but the real thing. If that's what you are comfortable with then, go for it! You can say you are still technically a virgin when you get married. Personally, I think if you are going to do those things, you might as well go all the way.
If you are concerned with no sex before marriage then I suggest you keep your hands and arms and everything else to yourself.
2006-09-15 18:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by fleekyone 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Read the New Testament! Things like "feeling up" and "fingering" are clearly out of the question.
2006-09-16 10:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by rideon75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A virgin in the old testiments is NOT having (Viginia ) Sex
If you want the pages in the bible to read about this let me know
2006-09-15 18:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish to stay a virgin til marriage then ok to kiss and touch, trouble is you can easily get carried away so set your limits and stick to them
2006-09-15 18:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by cheyenne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion, is that all is ok, including sex, but I'm a Witch, so sex before marriage is ok for us. If your belief is that there should be no sex before marriage, then that is your choice, but I would have thought that as long as you aren't Catholic (as they pretty much frown upon all kinds of sexual contact), it would be ok to kiss and so on...
2006-09-15 18:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Seph7 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What you are asking is foreplay to sexual relations and why do that when you will get all fired up and nowhere to go..
Don't do those things until you get married..
2006-09-15 18:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
James 2:8
If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, "Love your neighbor as yourself," you are doing right.
2006-09-15 18:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's okay to do whatever you both feel comfortable doing. If you don't feel comfortable doing something, don't do it.
2006-09-15 18:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by rainfingers 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
... chatting, talking with one another... thats about it, but no one cares to follow religion anymore... so they make their own limits.
2006-09-15 18:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by WhiteHat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋