I have turned to the Bible and found the greatest gift. But I have a problem. How do I reveal this new found religiousity to my family and friends without turning them away. I know many are 'disapproving' of religious belief or dismiss them altogether.
How can I show my faith and keep my friends and family just the way it is now?
2006-09-15 11:03:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I would also like to say that I didn't convert from another religion, but rather I was brought up by my grandparents in a semi-religious environment, very conscious of right/wrong, but not attached to a specific religion.
2006-09-15 11:10:16 · update #1
Show them by your actions. Go slow, real slow...don't throw it in their face. Have you ever visited: wayofthemaster.com they have something on there called the good person test and other useful information for witnessing to your family and friends. Most of all stay in the Word, it will continue to strengthen you. Remember you can only plant the "seed," and tell them what God has shown you...the rest is up to them and God. Also you are right many are disapproving of religious beliefs....most will hate it before you witness to them and after too. Keep this in mind and don't be discouraged. Keep in the Word no matter what, you have been given an important and loving gift. Thank Him who has shown you the light and know that He is in charge. God Bless.
2006-09-15 11:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dealt with this same problem when I became a Christian. Why not just tell them. My parents accepted it easily. They were happy that I was just back in church. My sisters didn't take it too well (one of them is a liberal feminist). We've actually had some arguments, but I think we've gotten it taken care of. They know where I stand on some subjects and we just don't talk about it. If the opportunity arises, which isn't very often, then I may mention something about my religion. Most of all, just remind them that whether you are a Christian or not, you are still their family. Live your life in a way that can be an example. They will see what an amazing gift you've found when they see the difference in the old you and the new you.
2006-09-15 11:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by shybusch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be a bit of a balancing act which requires sensitivity to your family/friends. It's true Jesus said not to hide your light under a bushel. He also said he stands at the door and knocks, he doesn't kick the door down. My best suggestion is to love them and if possible try to avoid getting drawn into arguments which tend to turn people off. It's OK to disagree just respect each others rights to disagree.
2006-09-21 08:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Edward J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the lord god for help during these troubled times, if family and friends don't accpet you then ask them why, debate about it, i am not religous but here is a tip,
Don't force your beliefs on other people, let them start the convo then talk about it, if you like worship music say you listen to it in the car all the time, but when your friends are there then put the radio on or something that you all like.
i am speaking from your friends behalf it is a nightmare please dont force the lord on us let us make our own choices..
Brian
2006-09-22 13:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mr It 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of my family have faith either, but when I became a Christian they respected my decision, laughed about it! The best thing is to just let them know, then leave it until they ask more. You don't have to lose friends because of your faith, although I lost 2, who couldn't accept my views. Hope it goes well. Of course, make sure you pray for guidance before you tell them!
2006-09-16 01:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is your life if by turning to the bible is helping you to become a better person then thats good and and your family will never loose thier love for you trust me and about your friends well if they turn around and say that you are not doing a good thing or they behave differently then maybe you need to question their friendship weather they are suitble for you because i bet they are not real friend if they let religion get between you guys, but if they are ok with it you need to hold on to them cos they will be loyal to you always k
good luck and wish you well
2006-09-15 11:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by jyoti mehta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too turned to the bible and I must say i was more worried about my dad. I now feel silly as he doesn't care what i decide to have a belief in as he loves me no matter what. I am sure that your family love you and will accept what you believe in. you have the faith now trust in it. good luck.
2006-09-23 00:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by bty565146 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there.
Please read Matthew 10:25-39. This should help you. You are not responsible for the reaction of others to your faith. You are only responsible for sharing the truth with gentleness and respect. If you have any comments or questions please feel free to contact me. May God bless you and guide you into all truth.
2006-09-23 01:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Carlito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can’t prevent any thing you can just share your understanding in love, knowledge and truth. People will do what they are going to do no matter how you share, but before you attempt to share with other’s make sure you are grounded in the truth. Because there is one thing for sure, those you share with if they have any knowledge of what you believe and don't believe it they are going to try to put your to shame, so get grounded in the knowledge of the truth and understanding of the grace of God, before you attempt to enlighten anyone else.
Peace be unto you, and my the Spirit of God lead and keep your.
2006-09-22 18:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Achreous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you find the right time,it won't be has hard as you think,if anything the question would be,why did you convert??
I recently found peace in Islam and I didn't tell my friends and family till I was ready,it feels good now they know
so just don't stress,everything will be okay.
2006-09-15 11:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Laila 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋