Hey girls and guys out there i need some help,
u see my bf John me and him are in love well my bestfriend Christiana has also loved him since last year!!!! John said that he dosesn't like or love Christiana he only loves me. Today Christiana wrote me a note saying that she wasn't trying to take john from me!!! Yet she wrote john a note telling him ways to break up with me and how she has a song that reminds her of him!!! She wrote in highlighter down the page "I LOVE U JOHN" I was about to kill her!!!! How can i make her back off?!?!
Plz help cause i got a date with john tonight!!!
Kelse
2006-09-15 10:59:39 · 27 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~And this ladies and gentleman is another trailer preview of the movie: John Tucker Must Die!!
I am now going to post my own question, so be sure to look for it on here later.... Why does any female, get so upset with the other female in the picture when their b/f has done them wrong?
... so Kelse, Sounds to me like this John is jerking you and your friend both around, bet he's got some others you don't know about as well.... so why hate your friend? Solution: find a b/f who is really into you, and you only... and you're going out with this dude tonight? ARE YOU REALLY INTO SELF PUNISHMENT DARLIN'? I bet if you wanted, you could get a better looking b/f with real balls and knowledge on how to treat a girl right without even trying really hard. Love yourself first!! As for the gal involved, keep your friends close and your enemies closer.... As for John, kick his butt to the curb honey... find a b/f who doesn't come attached to drama.
2006-09-15 11:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by someone s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you really can do. If you have the note she wrote John, you could confront her with it, tell her that he tells you what she does, etc. You could also let John know how uncomfortable all this makes you. If he cares about you as you say he does, it will make an effort to stop contact with Christiana. Good luck!
2006-09-15 18:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't..do you have faith in john or don't you? If you do the best course of action to take is honestly to do nothing. Throw her notes away, quit calling her your friend, john needs to quit interacting with her in any way but the biggest single thing you can do is not let it effect your relationship with john...just keep doing what you have been doing and sooner or later she'll figure out that the two of you refuse to play her silly games and stick to playing solitaire. How much fun would it be to set up a game of checkers and sit there for hours waiting for someone else to start playing with you? It wouldn't...basically she has set up the board, the question is are you going to play or just let the game sit there untouched? Once you take away the payoff she is getting for her behavior (namely causing problems between the two of you) she'll stop the behavior, simple human nature. Good luck!
2006-09-15 18:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’d say Christiana is not much of a best friend if she is trying to steel you boyfriend… John told you he didn’t like/love her and he does love you so forget about her (just ignore her and hope John will do the same) and go out and have fun on your date! ;) then go out and find a new best friend!
2006-09-15 18:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by string1dm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you friends with someone like this? She is not your friend. Why is your boyfriend accepting notes from her? Cut her out of both of your lives and go on with your own lives. Don't accept phone calls emails and anything else from her and let your other friends know what happened in case she tries to turn this around on you include a copy of the letter she wrote to your boyfriend.
2006-09-15 18:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow up, you will learn that compromise is an important part of any relationship. Just confront her about it, and tell her politely to stop bothering both you and your boyfriend. If she does not listen, both of you can ignore her and make her feel bad, then maybe she will listen.
Or just include her in the relationship. You know, three-way stuff. It heightens pleasure, and it fun for everyone. Especially for the guy. Just search google for some fun positions.
2006-09-15 18:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by michelangelo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This High School stuff really cracks me up.....Ummmm if John is with you then tell her to back off. Ask her to leave the two of you alone. How you can call her your best friend is beyond me. Stand up for your man! Or let him go!
2006-09-15 18:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with john and christiana and start over
2006-09-15 18:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the best of it. Say "I love John he is my boyfriend, not your mine". If that doesn't work make-out in front of your friend to make her back off.
2006-09-15 18:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by shopperloverdrake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you have to look more into that situation. john could be sending her signals that you are totally unaware of. trust me, people can be sneaky when they want to be. if this is true, neither one of them deserve to be in your life and they deserve each other. if it is not true, then this female is stalker and should be watched. either way, she needs to be out of your life for trying to take your man....friends dont do that.....real women dont do that! before you make any quick decisions, look into it thoroughly.
2006-09-15 18:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋