do something wrong and people give you advice do you take there advice or do you do what is best for yourself ive been given lots of advice about something i did but who do i listen to
2006-09-15 10:58:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Do what you feel is right.
You can listen to others but - deep down you know what is right and what you should do
2006-09-15 11:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who offer unsolicited advice often have agendas. If they are good enough to offer constructive criticism, there is seldom harm in listening. There are people you may confide in: clergy, doctors, and lawyers if you fear revealing what you have done may carry legal implications. Ask what the limits of privelege are and establish that you are engaged in priveleged dialog before revealing anything. If this does not apply, figure out who you trust -- a friend, a mentor, or even a talk radio host you like. Take in all the ideas, then weigh them and form a course of action. Do not necessarily try to find the middle path. There are enough negative connotations to "compromise".
2006-09-15 11:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by novangelis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked questions and listened to the advice but deep down you probably know what you need to do,people can only tell you what they think is right but i would advice you to think about all the options and then make the decision that is best for you as at the end of the day you are the one who has to live with your decision
2006-09-16 05:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by sam* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day, we ask people for advice/opinion but we still go with our initial gut feelings.
I would suggest you do the same. If things go wrong, you can only blame yourself. If you ask a friends advice & it doesn't work out then you might end up losing the friendship over the advice.
It's difficult, but go with your own opinion.
Good luck :-)
2006-09-15 11:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by MISS B.ITCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know yourself better than anyone else. Advice should be taken as a different point of view. Trust yourself b/c in the end your the one who has to deal with the outcome.
2006-09-15 11:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best person you should listen to and take their advise is the person you trust the most with your life , for example a husband or wife, bf or gf, mum or dad, best friend.
OR go with how you feel in your self only you know what is right and wrong.
And good luck!!!
2006-09-15 11:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by samleigh40@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to do anything is how you feel to be right that way if you make a mistake you only have yourself to blame its like my mother in law wth all the good intentions gives me advice but i just say yes ok and then do it my own way anyway as you can only learn really from your own mistakes
2006-09-15 11:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a bit of what you like and ignore the rest. Advice is only words of experience and as we are all so different, it won't work for everyone.
Remember to trust your instincts too x
2006-09-15 19:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by churchls0904 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard the saying "the best thing to do with good advice is pass it on because it is never of any use to yourself"
do what you think is best for you.
2006-09-15 11:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by J W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in a real pickle - call the Samaritans. They won't give you advice, but they'll listen and help you find your own answers.
2006-09-17 03:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by tess_n_munch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋