OMG MY MOM IS GETTING ON MY NERVES AND I DONT KNO WAT TO DO SHE WONT LET ME GO ANYWHERE. IM 13 AND IM IN MIDDLE SCHOOL AND MY MOM DOSENT WANNA TAKE IN THT IM A TEENAGER AND ITS FRIDAY AND SHE WONT LET ME GO OUT ANYWHERE SHE LIKE YOUR NOT GOING ANYWHERE GO 2 YOUR ROOM OR SOMEHTING AND IT GETS ON MY NERVES WHAT SHOULD I DO....BEFORE I HANG MYSELF I CANT STAND HER!!
2006-09-15 10:50:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
IM NOT RELE GONNA HANG MYELF
2006-09-15 11:02:11 · update #1
It sounds like your mother is concerned about your safety. Thirteen years old is still quite young. Are you going with people as a group or on a single date, or by yourself to hang out at the mall? Are you in the city or a rural area? Group activities, such as teen functions in a church or school, might be ok as long as there is plenty of adult supervision. But if not, you need to find an activity to do at home that you enjoy. Don't try to rush growing up. You will have responsibilities soon enough. You don't need to be getting into trouble at such an early age. And if the threat about hanging yourself is real, you really need to let someone know what you are planning and get some professional help. Talk to your minister, to a teacher at school, or to an adult friend, or your doctor. It is normal to feel the need for independence at your age, but you should earn that by being trustable and dependable, not by proving you can't be trusted.
2006-09-15 11:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by dbarnes3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a way over protective mom and i don't know your history but what i did was first act responsible all the time (at least that my mom knew of) and then was upfront with her about what i wanted to do where it was who it was with and when i would be home etc... always within reason of course. U need to teach her to trust you and prove that your word is good. for the first little while go out with a few people for a short time and come home a bit early, then indulge your mom by telling her how much fun it was and how much you appreciate her letting you go. Life is a game and if you can learn the little tricks you will go far. Remember that what she doesn't know won't hurt her as long as what she does know satisfies her.
2006-09-15 17:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone goes through that i did and my mom still gets on my nerves and im 21 but sometimes they no whats best 4 u but try talking 2 her and letting her know how u feel if that dont work u have 5 more yrs before ur 18
2006-09-15 17:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by pg#3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh. grow up. it is not the end of the world you know. put things in perspective--there are people dying right know - homeless children who would kill for a mom like yours. did you ever think your mom is concerned maybe she doesnt want her baby out all night without her. yes you are still her baby. do you know how much those things you wrote would hurt your mom? dont say they wouldnt if you are not a parent you just dont understand how much we love our children. why dont you take a minute to be grateful for what you do have instead of whining about what you want.stop being a brat
2006-09-15 23:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i'm a mother of a 14 girl and 12 yr old boy...you are being way to dramatic...
maybe she has a reason why you are not going anywhere and you forgot to mention it to us here...
you are a teenager, just that...if she wants you to do or not do something she is in charge of that...
it sounds to me like you should not put so much effort in going out with friends and you and your mom should do something together...this way it still gets you out of the house and helps you two to develop better communication skills....
stop whinning....
2006-09-15 18:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by tiffani h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is a tough time in life, but the fact that you are threatening suicide (whether in jest or in reality) and had to post in a shout says that she is likely justified in her worries for you. Take a moment to calm down and act a little more grown up.... maybe ask her to chaperone a group of you and your friends to a movie.... compromise is a wonderful thing.
2006-09-15 18:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a teenager, albeit a very young one who shouldn't expect to do much going out on the weekends .... unless you are with friends that she trusts and an adult provides the transportation to and from whatever event you wish to attend.
2006-09-15 17:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by trainedandready 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is no joke but maybe she is worried about you. If my daughter was 13 i wouldnt be letting her go out alone unless i dropped her off and picked her up. Todays world is scary for parents
2006-09-15 17:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jaymie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better talk to HER calmly or have another adult talk to HER about this matter.
I let my 14 yr old & 12 yr olds go on their own. I usually take them and pick them up. Why not? They have to LEARN how to be responsible sometime!!!
My kids can't go until they get ALL THEIR HOMEWORK DONE!!! That usually gets them to do their homework!!! LOL
YOU might want to call a sucide hotline. YOU have depression and issues with this matter. LET your mother know and another adult KNOW that you are contemplating sucide!
2006-09-15 18:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try and sit down and have a talk with her. Give her a list of people you'll be going out with and if you don't have a cell give them your friends cell numbers. Just remember she's just looking out for you.
2006-09-15 17:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by niknac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋