My relationship ended with my ex-boyfriend but both of still kept each other on our msn list. He was the one who ended it but after he would still contact me via msn. He has stopped saying hi to me on msn, but now, whenever I log in msn, he puts a picture up. No it's NOT pics of him or girls, just randoms pics. It's just weird because he NEVER has a pic on msn, but as soon as I log in, he puts up a pic. Then once I log off, he takes off the pic and puts it back to the green figure. I know this is insignificant but it's bothering me. I just wish I knew what was ging through his mind when he's doing this and why he's doing it. Why does he even care enough to do this? Yes, I know he doesn't care about me anymore but he he keeps doing this EVERY time I log on msn. Why is he acting sooo weird? Guys if you dumped a girl would you act this way and what does it mean?
And yes I know I asked this already, I just wanna get lots of different opinions:)
2006-09-15 10:45:12 · 13 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes I know I could just delete and block him but I don't hate him and don't feel the need too, I mean he hasn't done that to me.
2006-09-15 10:46:09 · update #1
Don't you know that he's having a hard time letting you go in his own mind. He's confused on wheather he made a mistake or not. This isn't a random thing, it happens to many of us. Just be nice and let him have fun. Sooner or later he will straighten out his mind, you have to be ready to accept whatever that may be.
2006-09-15 10:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Tyranus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, you do realise that not all msn pics stay up all the time, certain peoples msn will show the green figure then after a short while thier pic will appear and dissappear just as you said. it depends which version of msn your using!
theres nothing wrong with this dude hes not actually doing anything at all!!! youre the weird one for thinking up something so strange!
and even if he was changing pictures - what the hell is wierd about that? hes using a different V of msn, probably just an older version!!! hes not donig anything at all!
im guessing youre less than 16 years old!
2006-09-15 17:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by the dogone dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the guy. It appears he has some hostility remaining and he is annoying you without going over the top. Over the top may yet come unless you converse. Tell him to please stop. "I have to admit, Johnny, the random picture thing is clever and I appreciate the gesture, but it's getting old. We had some good times but you ended it and in retropect, I think you were wise. Gotta go, mom's picking me up..." Something non-threatening like that. If he's not a psycho stalker in the making, he will stop it. You didn't embarrass him with an accusation, in fact you complimented him. Luck.
2006-09-15 17:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe the answers have to do with the pics.... I mean, if the guy acts weird he might use the pics as hints to let you know about something... If not, he's just a burden on your shoulders.
2006-09-15 17:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lenneth's true challenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't read a lot into it...
If this is really what he is doing and not just coincidence, his ploy is working... you are bothered and still thinking about him altogether too much!
How would you know that he changes it when you go offline? Checking up on him from another user's id? lol A tad bit obsessive aren't we? Maybe you should hang with another chat for a while.
2006-09-15 17:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by toastposties 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take him off your list and if he keeps up then he still likes you so um yeah im in that situation but in reallife he calls me still it just means he still care and is not over you yet
2006-09-15 17:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by wedita_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat are those random pics? i think that they might have some type of meaning in them and i think that you two might have some (even if it's a teensy bit) of feelings for each other. well, that's just my opinion and i think that you should make sure that those pictures we ment for you (maybe there was another reason) and if they are, confront him about it.
2006-09-15 18:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing mind games. I'd wipe him off my list and forget about it.
2006-09-15 17:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Pauleen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's probably nothing wrong with him,you probably talk so damn much,you didn't notice he was gone for a month!
2006-09-15 17:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, just leave the poor guy alone.
2006-09-15 17:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋