What is does a guy like when it comes to having a girlfriend?
I really not a skinny blond - no offense to them. I think I am pretty but I want to make my boyfriend mouth down open when he see me without showing all my skin
wanna see how I look go to http://www.geocities.com/a_christian_chick/about_me.html
2006-09-15 10:42:50 · 10 answers · asked by stacey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a married guy now, but I was attracted to my wife because she had a comfortable personality, a good sense of humor, is jolly, has a good sense of Christian values, and had friendly parents and siblings. Her looks were neat despite my inability to get my arms all the way around her when I hugged her. She was eager to kiss. My lips swelled up after we overdid it too many times. She was active in church activities, was a great song leader, could cook normal menus, and didn't think she was such "hot stuff" that only certain people would be accepted by her.
Personally, I think how a person reacts in all situations, their friendly personality, and positive outlook on life and all its potential, and their thriftiness in spending, are much more important than looks. Those are values and attractions that the right lipstick, right clothes or expensive look aren't going to change. Looks change with age, personality only with attitude and relationship challenges.
Also, if you want to attract the right guy for you, talk to his heart. Don't just react to his actions. Most guys don't like to think too deeply, but a girl with all the right questions that are asked because she seems genuinely interested instead of nosey, is a sought after rare breed.
Also, guys need less appreciation for what they do than a woman. But even a little will keep them interested in doing for you for a long time. Being able to provide solutions that will "satisfy" or solve a woman's needs is why a guy exists.
But a gal who seems to never be satisfied enough is a real turnoff. Moderation works in all things. Don't just use a guy for what you need, he'll drop you mighty quick. This involves sex, too, if he is the right one.
A lot of guys like sex, and use girls to get it, no real feelings involved.
Be really careful of guys who seem to say anything to get sex with you.
Guys, for the most part have a really difficult time expressing their emotions verbally. If they are coming across with ease, look out, they probably are just trying to say the right "turn-on" words to get what they want and don't care that you are actually taking it serously.
I advise that you just present yourself honestly in the best way you can, and the person you attract will be your soul mate. Honesty is the most important part of a relationship. Good Luck.
2006-09-15 11:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by lukn4sumpn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different in what they look for, or what makes thier mouth drop when seeing thier girl. However, they all like confidence, both in how the girl feels in her own skin and in how she feels about herself. They like someone who makes them feel important, someone who shares some of thier interests,yet is not afraid to be thier own person as well. If you do these things your boyfriend will be more then happy.
2006-09-15 10:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually a man looks for the perfect woman, we all know that, but what is a perfect woman? for me, I look for an honest girl, but who am I? I also like them to be beautiful, hot like they say, so you concentrate on not taking your clothes off, if thats what you want, but making him feel that he has a hot girl, how? thats up to you, you should know how to make your boyfriend like that :P.
For example, I like when my girlfriend wears long skirts (weird rite?), I guess your boyfriend has a weakpoint too, hehe, so you look for it! you wont be dissapointed!
2006-09-15 10:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by said m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really we want you to be different just wear something that looks sexy on you. black or red are very attractive colors. make up can make look bad if you use to much. and make your lips glow. and be confident...
2006-09-15 10:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by frank o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are def not really a skinny blonde - nothing close dude.
you dont need a bf. just a ncie book (maybe the good book) and some tea.
2006-09-15 10:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by magnet4trouble 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cannot answer this is a G rated forum, ener the pg -13 relm and he will be happier
2006-09-15 10:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by turbs44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but the second time he meets you, it's not just about looks.
Also, it's about what you are going to do, more than what he's going to do.
2006-09-15 10:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Up your Maslow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly i like girls better that dont show skin or wear tight cloths
2006-09-15 10:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by tim s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be true to yourself,and you'll be fine.
2006-09-15 10:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn english. and show a little nip.
2006-09-15 10:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by Justin H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋