Im suppose to go with my girlfriend to her friends wedding. Heres the catch... I hooked up with this girl a few times last summer. Is it wrong of me to go to her wedding?
2006-09-15 10:10:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My current girlfriend and I werent togther at the time.
2006-09-15 10:14:09 · update #1
...no it is not,..unless you still have feelings for her
2006-09-15 10:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are two important questions that we don't have the answer to.
When you two hooked up...
1) were you involved with your girlfriend?
2) was she involved with her fiance?
If the answer to either of these is yes then you are a terrible person, fake the flu and don't go.
If the answer is no then go and have an incredibly awkward time just don't answer any "Was she better than me?" questions.
Most importantly by no means say the "I had a sample..." thing. Open bar + palpable tension = punch in the face.
2006-09-15 17:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by SuperNathan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two questions for you...
Does your girlfriend know? Because if she doesn't and she finds out later there might be a problem or not (depending on how jealous she can get).
Did the other girl think more of your "hooking up" because if you were a serious item then your presence there might not be nice and can cause your girlfriend problems with her friend for bringing you.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-15 17:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by White 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't wrong for you to go. Both of you have a past. You dont have to worry about the bride letting the cat out of the bag . Can you imagine her in her big white dress as she is standing in front of the church;
"Hey aren't you that guy I banged a few times last summer?"
Go and have a good time!
2006-09-15 17:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll be fine as long as you never ever mention to anyone that you hooked up with her. I'm sure she doesn't want her husband to know, since that was only a year ago. You weren't with your girl, but was the bride with her guy? I mean who gets married in less than a year's time? Sounds like someone was cheating.
2006-09-16 03:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the bride and make sure she is comfortable with you coming. If not then I suggest you fake sick and stay home that day. If she is then go and have a good time. It is in the past so I don't see why you shouldn't go.
2006-09-16 00:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, two of my fiance's ex-girlfriends are going to be in my wedding and we are actually good friends( I met them because they were friends of the family and we got along real good) I think as long as you have no feelings for her it's fine.
2006-09-16 02:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Go to the wedding, keep your mouth shut, and STOP cheating on your girlfriend. Pray that the bride keeps her mouth shut as well.
2006-09-15 17:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by BRIAN W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should decline the invitation. It would make the bride extremely uncomfortable.
Does your gf know about this previous relationship you had with the bride? Regardless of if you tell her or not, YOU personally should not attend-- RSVP no.
2006-09-15 18:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you was not with your current g/f at the time then it should not be a big deal but if you was then that is a different story.
2006-09-18 00:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by aprils242001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the impression you've left. If it was a good one then go and wish her well, if it was lousy then don't show your face and pretend that you've got an acute case of flatulence.
2006-09-15 17:13:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋