Hello Everyone!
One of my best high school friends is getting married tomorrow. We haven't been that close lately, as she went on to teachers college. I was just wondering that would be a good amount of money to give to her/her husband. I was thinking of $100. Does that sound good?
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
2006-09-15 09:58:01 · 21 answers · asked by loudy_foudy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Very gracious and that is fine.
Also, whatever you can afford, you don't have to go broke. Besides they will be making enough money in cash and gifts.
You guys haven't been close lately and she invited you. That is an honor. Don't forget to sincerely thank her and her husband at the reception for the invite.
2006-09-15 11:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Martin M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think 50-100 dollars is a good amount. I will say that I disagree with the person who said that money is not an appropriate gift for a wedding. From personal experience I can say that weddings are very expensive, and new couples could really use cash for their honeymoon or to put towards building their new home together. At our wedding we appreciated those who gave cash just as much (if not more) than those who bought gifts off of our registry. I'm sure that she will be happy that you came out at all to celebrate her big day with her.
2006-09-16 06:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by skahermit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. My answer is the same as the last 50000 times this question was asked. I don't consider money a good gift, in most cases. Take the time to look at their registry and pick something out. Otherwise, it may come across as "I don't have time to shop for you, and you are worth $100 to me, so here's the money. Go shop for yourself." Not everyone agrees with me, but I just don't think that cash or gift certificates are particularly personal. Sure, they are appreciated, but I still think it puts a price on friendship. I'd much rather receive a $25 item that I registered for than a $100 check.
2006-09-15 11:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think a $100 is very generous of you. Cash is a good gift. When I got married a friend of mine gave me a large amount of money and I never for one minute thought "She didn't even bother to shop for me", like some others have said. I was appreciative that she thought that much of me to give me even the cash. I think she will really appreciate it. Have Fun!!!
2006-09-15 15:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Valkyrie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should give/spend as much as your budget allows. If $100 is comfortable for you, then that is fine. I just got married and we told our guests no gifts... we simply were thankful they were able to come celebrate with us.
2006-09-15 20:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by wahine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most couple pay anywhere from $50-$125 per person to come to their reception. So a $100 is quite generous, especially when you are not that close to your friend.
2006-09-15 11:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One should not judge a gift by its price. But in any case 100 bucks sound good.
2006-09-15 10:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by KCD 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sure a hundred would be enough. even 50 would be good enough. your best judgment is the best. we once only put 10 bucks in a card for the bride and groom only because well we were broke. we made up for it by helping out tho so lol. they understood. they enjoyed our company more than anything.
2006-09-15 14:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by lusciousevil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should gift according to your own budget and your affection for the couple. There is not any specific "enough" figure that anyone can tell you.
You should MAIL them a card and a check (not cash)-- do not take it to the wedding and reception. Same if you decide to give them a physical gift-- do not take it with you to the wedding, it's not proper and creates a security and transporting hassle. Ship it to their home.
2006-09-15 10:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think that is a great gift and they will be really thankful to have it.
If you are unsure though, you could always instead of getting them cash, find something on their registry and get them that. a lot of the large items like side tables and other fruniture are never bought for the couple.
2006-09-15 10:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by chickennosenshi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋