ok sooo....say im 18 and ive never had a boy frined but have loadsa guy mates...and i look good and have a good physique...what am i doing wrong?? is there someething wrong with not having a bf yet??
2006-09-15 09:49:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing wrong at all. you have all the time in the world.
2006-09-15 09:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by babyshooze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the tard that said don't have boyfriends, just sex. That's a good way to get your feelings hurt and as well as your reputation with the guys. You will end up being the "go to gal" because you are being easy. If i were you, be patient. Believe me, sometimes boys can be a pain in the *** when they are boyfriends. I dated a guy who was abusive and treated me horribly and i haven't dated since then. That was 4 months ago... But i haven't lost hope and i won't give up. Neither should you. Stay strong sweetheart. Your prince charming will come.
2006-09-15 16:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Intuition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loads if Guy Mates??? Platonic Mates or Physically Active?
Find one of these Guy Mates, that you are truly interested in, and develop a stronger relationship. There is nothing wrong with not having a bf if you are happy as an individual. If you are physically active with these guy mates, you may have a rep, and are not GF material
2006-09-15 16:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by twoshotjudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women!!!!! No usually if you have a lot of guy friends, then chanses are at leats one of them thinks you are to die for! Hey, guys hang with gals they find attractive! You are not dealing with another woman here. Men will not hang with an ugly girl unless she is doing the nasty with them. You are probably a knock out! They are afraid of you. Loosen up around them. Pick one to seriously flirt with. If it goes bad, then you have several others to choose from. I would say that almost all of them would think they were in heaven if they got you in bed. Sorry it's a guy thing.
2006-09-15 16:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Phill Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are fine! I'm sure your prince charming is going to come soon! And look at it on the bright side, by the age of 18 most girls are in heartache because of all their past boyfriends.
2006-09-15 16:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Waiting Takes Too Long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that. The guys just like your company. If they get into a relationship with you that will mess it all up. Don't look to your buddies for a relationship.
2006-09-15 16:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Im 12 and I have already had 2 boyfriends. Like we haven't kissed or anything but seriousle. None!!! Something is wrong with you.
2006-09-15 16:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with just let it come, but you could always take the initiative and ask someone out, nothing wrong with that. And there's nothing wrong with not having one. It doesn't mean anything.
2006-09-15 16:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by DrmRboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. for some reason, you are just not ready yet. do not allow peer pressure to push you into something you are not ready for. take your time. you have a long time. if you rush, you may miss the one person in this world just for you.
2006-09-15 16:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and meet new guys. There isn't anything wrong with you.
2006-09-15 16:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋