I am in a long distance relationship. She live in Atlanta,Ga and I live in Savannah,Ga. I like her alot and and we talk to each other everyday. I have a trust issue and the more we talk about it the more it goes away, and my trust goes up. She is thinking about transfering to a school near me. What is anybodys opinion on how to make this work. Plus we were friends for seven years before we started dating. Thank You
2006-09-15 09:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by trent r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it a shot. Don't give up too soon. If you have trust issues, it's best to at least try to work it out and get over them. Make sure that stay in contact. Don't let small things bother you. There will be times when you can't talk to her or that she forgets to call you, but don't bite her head off. Instead, keep your life full and satisfying without her, so that she doesn't become your only focus point and also so that you won't make her feel overwhelmed.
2006-09-15 09:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you. I live in Texas, my boyfriend lives in Vermont. We've been in a long distance relationship for 5 1/2 years. It's really hard and trust is the biggest obstacle. My suggestion is to go see her as often as you can if you can afford to. You both live in the same state, you're still pretty close. If you love each other that much, then trust me, that little distance won't do anything. It's worked for us (we've seen each other three tiems already, and it will be the 4rth time this january) and it can work for you, too. But please go see her soon. Or have her come over and meet you.
2006-09-16 20:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your already ahead because friendship is the begininig of a relationship. I acutally have a guy i talk to in FL and i am in GA but we have a friendship before anything so if one of us where to move i know in my heart we would be togehter. Just don;t pushe her let her make the decision and make sure you are ready to handle what is coming at u. relationships are about compromise and communication and trust so make sure all that is in order. good luck to u!!
2006-09-15 16:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust someone at sometime. why not let it be her? if she's talking about transfering near you that should tell you something. did she give you a reson not to trust her when you guys were just friends? what's done in the dark shall came to light .
2006-09-15 17:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to teust her. atleast you are in the same state! Me and my husband were in two different countries and made it work. Trust is key.
2006-09-15 16:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 2 hours from my bf, and weve been together for almost 10 months now and things are amazing. just make sure your always communicating well, and lots of visits!
2006-09-15 16:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see here, don't be like me and sit around and wait for something good to happen.
2006-09-15 16:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont
2006-09-15 16:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT ..... if you dont you will have regrets
2006-09-15 16:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋