2006-09-15 09:44:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Honey if you and a guy are in the room nude...you will be the most beautiful woman in the world. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because you don't think you are perfect doesn't mean someone else won't. I have a sister who is obese. I don't mean fat ...i mean obese. ( I dont know what size you are but the moral of the story is the same)Her husband is this little guy who adores her and thinks she is the most beautiful woman in the world. He is always after her to have sex because he openly says he loves her body. You see...there is a guy out there who will see you the same way. Wait for him. But until then work on yourself. Do things for yourself that make you feel better about being you. Talk a walk every afternoon. Go get your nails done. Go shopping. whatever it takes find the path to loving yourself. You need to find your self esteem. I am sure you are gorgeous and have loads to offer a guy.
2006-09-15 10:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to take a shot in the dark here and if I'm wrong I'm sorry.
From the way you phrased this, I'm gussing you are far from ready to get married. Maybe you are in highschool still, and talked to your girlfriends about it and realized that some day that you are going to be naked in front of someone else and that is scary.
But have no fear, by the time you are in love with someone enough to marry them, that isn't going to matter as much because you'll have a love for each other based on much deeper things.
You'll also get the chance to wear something sexy and cute and will not have to be fully naked if you don't want to be until you are under the coveres.
I do think though, that you should spend as much time by yourself naked as you feel comfortable, the more you get used to seeing your own body but more it's easy to believe someone else can get used to seeing it.
2006-09-15 17:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by chickennosenshi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and i had decided to stay virgins until after we were married. All of my friends said that we were making a mistake. So my husband and i talked for a long time and we still wanted to stay virgins but we decided to go ahead and "reveal" our bodies so we wouldn't be as nervous.
I would tell your fiance how you feel. Most likely either he feels the same way or he will understand. We were so much more comforatable and this way we were not AS nervous leaving the reception. I was excited but still nervous. If you are getting married then you should be able to talk with him so just let him know what is going on.
2006-09-15 16:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally if a guy is marrying you he cares a lot about you. If you mean will he be unhappy to not see you without clothes, that's a question you'll have to ask the guy. So find one and ask him. Intimacy and getting the most love for each other may be a little difficult however.
2006-09-15 17:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My fiance and I have been together for 9 years and I still don't let him see me naked. He says that he don't care what my body looks like because he loves me. I'm sure your man thinks the same about you!
2006-09-15 19:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by sunflower0139 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife is no beauty queen now and has never been. But she is more fun in bed naked than any other way. If you don't get naked in bed at least once in a while, you'll be considered uninterested and a cold fish. Accepting yourself in "all your glory" is primary if you want him to accept you also. The guy you want to marry will probably want to see you before he marries you to heighten his interest in you. If there is something wrong with what you look like, it is better to get his reaction before he says "I do". You wouldn't want his potential disappointment to turn into abuse later, if you are trying to hide something ugly.
2006-09-15 17:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by lukn4sumpn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It always makes me sad to hear how much power men have over women this way. They should be better at staying away from porn and make the real women they're supposed to care about feel gorgeous the way they are.
The right guy for you will think you are though.
2006-09-15 16:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why must a guy see you naked? You dont need to be totally naked to had sex. Tell him how you feel, just turn off the light, more romantic.
2006-09-15 22:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by chawcs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey i'm married, and I still don't like my husband seeing me naked. But my husband loves me, so he don't care what I look like. He tells me I'm beautiful all the time. If this guy really loves you, then it won't matter to him.
2006-09-15 17:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Mambers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will probably have to feel comfortable around the guy to want to marry him. Guys love sex no matter if they're married or not.
2006-09-15 18:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋