Why does he stare at me the whole time we are making love?

Question

It makes me uncomfortable wondering about what he is thinking. I turn away or close my eyes and look back and he just always is staring.

Answer 1

Have you ever saw a beautiful picture...or stared at a sun set,
he loves looking at you...when your making love..I do the same with the wife..she used to ask me why i star at her..Now she just smiles and looks back into my eyes..as I listen to her sighs and groans...it's wonderful( been married 15yrs and it's the same every time)

Answer 2

My guess is that he's trying to find out how he's doing He may be waiting for signs that you're enjoying whatever he might be doing to you. Try giving him encouragement: "that feels good", "don't stop", that kind of thing. If you give him constant feedback, you'll probably both be happier.

Then again, he may just want to see what you look like having an orgasm. It's so different for men vs. women. I know my boyfriend likes to watch my face and lay his hand across my abdomen, waiting for me to have my "turn" before he finishes. It was uncomfortable for me at first, but now I think it's sweet.

Answer 3

Making love involves all senses, touch, smell, sound, taste, and view. He maybe the one who needs to maintain visual contact for maximum enjoyment. A lot of people like to have eye contact during the love making, he is not an exception. Most likely he think how beautiful you are when you making love.

Answer 4

Be thankful luv most blokes shut their eyes and imagine its the girl on the train, the sexy older woman in the coffee shop, the nice girl who works on the paper pitch, the 30 year old stunner who wears the short skirt at the station every morning, you get the picture if we aint looking at you its cause we are thinking of some one else, not being horrible just being honest, be grateful its you he is thinking of.

Answer 5

This guy must have really loves you. By using eye contact at that particular moment is a very magical feeling. You don't have to feel uncomfortable, just show him how Passion you can be~~

Answer 6

Staring? How? Look deep into his eyes. What do you see? Is it a lost look? Talk to him about it. Sharing your thoughts and feelings will bring you closer. And it will answer your question by the only person who can really answer it.

Answer 7

its a sign of passion and love to you,
as when a man who try to look you into the eyes when you are making up, its a way when a man open up his heart and show you the sincerity of his affection to you.
where he notice your beauty through the second of time he watches over you and its not only of your body but too of your heart.
so try to look back with affection and let him realise your love to him are the same as which he give to you.
shyness will only turn your love sour, have a confidence in his and your love.

Answer 8

He is amazed by u its ok... he probably just doesnt know how to say it in the heat of the moment... feel good never bad or ashamed... He loves you... see what he does when u stare back... smile and tell him u like it... he'll probably open up after that

Answer 9

That's sweet but if you're uncomfortable, try bringing his head near your shoulders and hug him closer so he's not staring at you all the time.

Answer 10

It's actually sweet that a guy looks at you while making love.. Obviously he's thinking of you... There are women who complain that their guy doesn't look at them, or look into their eyes... So, if he looks at you, he's definately thinking of you.. You should be happy about it instead of seeing it as wierd...