A year ago, my boyfriend and I of six months got into a huge argument and broke up. I was so distraught and basically depressed that I slept with another guy the next night because I thought I would never have a chance to be with my ex again. I continued to date this other guy for a month after my ex said that he didn't really mean to break up with me in the beginning. Soon after, I came out of my depression and realized that I still loved the first guy, so we started dating again. After a year of dating, he broke up with me because he still couldn't get over me "cheating" on him. I apoligize, but he started dating another girl. He cheated on this girl with me, and then he flipped out and said he doesn't wanna be friends with me anymore. He's blaming me for his infidelity. I still love him, but more so, I really want to be good friends with him. Please tell me what I can do so I don't lose him.
2006-09-15 09:25:46 · 11 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you really should let him go. He seems to be very manipulative. You were not together when you slept with the other guy. He cannot blame you for events that happened after you broke up, especially since he's the one who left. For him to even put his situation with this other chick on you, shows that he isn't very mature and likes playing games. Stop playing them with him. There's no reason for him to still be upset. Obviously, cheating isn't a deal-breaker to him because he turned right around and cheated with you!
2006-09-15 10:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation will become a somewhat forced concillationary relationship if you were to pursue onwards.
The thorn will be an everlasting subject in every argument or confrontation in future.
If you love him so much that you're willing to lead such a miserable live with him, go on for goodness sake, no one can stop you.
May God Bless You
2006-09-15 21:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by davmanx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you never cheated on him, you thought the relationship was over. But after you got back to gather he cheated on YOU. You should be the angry one not him. He's not worth you're time move on. But move on as slowly as you need to.
2006-09-15 09:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if theres no kids shared between the two of you
theres no reason to remain friends !
hes involved with someone ,, one day you will be to .
most folks do not like the idea of thier boyfriend or girlfriend being best friends with an ex F*ck .
sorry ,, let it go and move on .
2006-09-15 09:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 01:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by merkel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have lost him. Move on. He blames you for cheating and also blames you for cheating with him. He seems to accept NO responsibility and never will.
2006-09-15 09:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I mean, for God’s Sake, don’t you little morons have homework to complete? Go to bed already!
2006-09-15 09:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you weren't together how did you cheat? Why be friends with a guy who can't figure out what he wants from you?
2006-09-15 09:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough situation, i understand both sides and he feels disgusted that you slept with somebody right after you guys broke up, he won't get over it so you should find somebody else.
2006-09-15 09:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are more fish in the sea, keep looking,...if your not married or in a agreed relationship it is ok to date others...
2006-09-15 09:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by greatfate2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋