2006-09-15 09:20:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Hell no. Run as fast as you can. You should wonder where he got them from!
2006-09-15 09:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by AD 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
For now, I would be more concerned about the health of your baby.
I would assume you've already gone to your doctor/ob-gyn, but if not now is the time to go. First off, because during pregnancy your immune system is compromised, with your horomones all over the place along with exhaustion and the physical as well as emotional changes going on. This may cause the warts to break out more often, more painfully and for a longer period of time. Secondly, because you want to make sure your baby is not affected by it. Most pregnant women exposed to genital warts have healthy pregnancies and the baby is fine, but if you have an outbreak just before labor then problems could occur forcing you to need a C-Section.
After you've spoken to the doctor, gotten treatment and made sure everything between you and the baby is safe, then I think you can address the matter of your boyfriend. I don't know the circumstances, but the HPV virus once in your system can never be "cured". Who knows, maybe it was your bf who infected you, or you may have already had the virus and not even known about it until now. In either case, and especially if he's the baby's father, the only thing to really do is talk to one another and try to figure things out. No matter what anyone tells you, it's up to the two of you as a couple. Good Luck!
If you want, the page where I found out the info about genital warts and pregnancy is listed below.
2006-09-15 16:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by parseltongue82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if he knew he could pass it on to u because the main cause of genital is the HPV VIRUS, and normally people dont know they have it. It is an STD but it can also be transfer through touching, etc.
Be careful because if u have an outbreak while giving birth the baby can get an infection in the larynx/ voice box.
2006-09-17 05:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by sugar507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, first of all...warts cannot be CURED, they can be TREATED.
Don't listen to people talking crap about you. I got pregnant as a teen and wasn't married, my son is fine. IF you love him, granted he didn't cheat on you, then why leave? This just means you two share the disease, and that is that. Don't jump to conclusions and what not, talk it out with him, in a mature fashion, you two are going to be parents soon and its better you learn this now. Get a piece of paper and a pen okay, and write as many things as you can that are good about him; how he treats you, etc. and as many things about him that are negative in your eyes and weigh that to help you make a decision.
2006-09-15 17:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by cherokee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people will probably say stay with him and deal with whatcha' got. I say leave him. He went out and got a gift that keeps on giving and brought it home to you and the baby. He should be castrated. At least some men have the common sense that when they cheat they use protection. I mean a cheater is a cheater but at least then you wouldn't have that to deal with for the rest of your life.
2006-09-15 16:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damage is already done! It really depends on how you feel about your boyfriend. If you love him it couldbe worth staying with him. Either way you still have the warts. It's not fair for you to let answers make up your mind. Ask him what he thinks.
2006-09-15 16:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by :o) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure he infected you?
Sometimes viruses can be dormant for months or even years before they activate. Is it possible you were infected by someone before your current boyfriend? Has he confessed or do you know for sure he gave this disease to you? If he did, it sounds like you might want to take a leave of absence at a minimum.
2006-09-15 16:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by I'm alive .. still 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should have a serious talk with him & share your feelings about this. Do you feel like you want to be with him? Make your decision based upon your feelings & not on what other people tell you. Good luck!
2006-09-15 16:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your decision I would stay because I won't want to tell another partner that I had Gential Warts!!
2006-09-15 16:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by PYT 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you certainly shouldn't go spreading them around to other people. Make sure to get the stats on any future partners before having unprotected sex with them. In fact, it's best not to have unprotected sex.
2006-09-15 16:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, did he get them before he was with you? You have a child on the way think of that. But if he is a loser then bail now.
2006-09-15 16:23:12 · answer #11 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋