I have just recently started seeing a guy. All either of us want out of this relationship is sex. Is that OK if both of us know that from the beginning?
2006-09-15 09:18:39 · 23 answers · asked by meg10_82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not bad as long as you do use protection in case he sleeps with anyone else. Sometimes a woman just needs a release just like men do.
2006-09-15 09:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes 3 years ago. I was with a guy only for sex, both had a blast for 8 months. At the beginning was only sex then after,we started sharing our personal stuff,going out to movies dancing,etc after 6 months I started developing feelings for him but that was not what he wanted so things led to other things and we split. As a woman I think you are more likely to get attached to someone so just make sure you both want this, and ask if there are going to be other people on the side you don't want to catch any disease and always use protection.
2006-09-15 09:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by jollyrancher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope the status of this relationship is VERY clear. If it isn't, there can be alot of hurt down the road on either side.
You also have to remember that if you continue with this "relationship" and there is a possibility of another relationship happening (one that is not based on sex only), that the other person is told - and the sexual relationship is cut off.
If you want to keep this easy - don't do anything else with your sexual partner. NO movies, dinner, intimate talking, staying the night (breakfast in the morning)... etc. It's just about the sex ONLY. If you start getting to know the person and visa versa, a bond could build.
All in all, be clear in your intentions and keep yourself protected. (it would suck to get pregnant by just a sexual fling!) Cut it off clean when another true relationship could happen.
Otherwise, enjoy your no strings attached friend! Stay safe.
2006-09-15 09:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you both established that about the relationship from the beginning, then there is nothing wrong with it! As Missy Misdemeanor Elliott says" Get Your Freak On!" LOL!
Enjoy Girlfriend!
2006-09-15 09:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY!! as long as that is understood in the beginning, no harm no foul. however, doing and saying are two different things. It is hard to keep a relationship that way (okay, after doing that for almost a year, i have been having feelings for the other) that is what makes it hard. take that into consideration, and damn HAVE FUN AND BE SAFE!!
2006-09-15 09:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by back2good1225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're having that a lot sex, you need to look on the objective in the back of the courting. Are there any actual emotions between both of you or is all of it hormones? this is fairly not achieveable to get to entice close someone even as in mattress at the same time. certain, you get to entice close them on a actual element, yet in case you want more effective than that, you're going to ought to discover yet another use on your mouth.
2016-11-27 00:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by grindstaff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats fine if you both don't care. I been in a realition like that but we split up..Just because we wanted some romance and we didn't think we were right for each other!!
2006-09-15 09:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's clear that sex is the only objective of the relationship. There is a term for it "_ _ _k Buddie" . Sorry to be crude.
2006-09-15 09:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by kar_summers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2006-09-15 09:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by audraonawa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess as long as you are BOTH on exactly the same wave length.. and nobody gets hurt over any feelings..
2006-09-15 09:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by PennyLane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋