ok so i started goin out with this guy and i brought him to the house but my parents dont like him...everytime i wanna see him theyre liek NO ..what do i do???????
2006-09-15 08:44:00 · 4 answers · asked by hollatata101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they dont like the fact aht he plays the guitar and is in a band, or that the fact that he has long hair like not long long but u no..pased his ears whichi think is cute.
2006-09-15 08:58:47 · update #1
You should probably talk with your parents calmly and find out what it is they do not like about him. They may be off target in their opinion, or they may be right on. As we grow older we develop a sense of people we meet. Sometimes parents get a feeling about someone that all they can say is "something just feel wrong about him". I don't have daughters, I have two sons, but I have had several young men I felt that way about that my son wanted to hang around. One of them ended up in jail for theft, and the other (God rest his soul) died in a fight over a cell phone. Another young man surprised me and became a very mature and responsible person.
So, at least give them a shot to explain their feelings to you. And then keep that information in the back of your mind. Cause even I know you will want to see him no matter what they say. But at least you have their feelings to guide you as well.
In addition to your new information, perhaps have him bring his guitar over and play a song that you feel your parents will like so they can see his talent. Also, ensure he uses words like yes ma'am, No ma'am, Yes sir, No sir. Too many young men now day's don't display proper courtesies when meeting the parents. And this is due to their own parents not enforcing it upon them.
Sounds like a cool guy. Hope he can gain your parents trust.
2006-09-15 08:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? If you are a minor I would suggest either not seeing him for a while and finding out why they don't like him, if you're an adult then who cares, you can do what you want. My parents don't like my boyfriend, but I'm a grown woman and he lives with me and yet they have not a clue. You need to do what's best for you. If you really care for him and he cares for you, no one else should matter.
Also see what he could do to get them to like him, possibly talk to them and get everything out in the open.
2006-09-15 08:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what exactly it is they don't like about him. Be as mature as possible and listen to what they say. Then ask yourself "Are these things he would change? Things I would want him to change?" I mean, are these thinkgs like he wears his hat on backwards? He doesn't look them in the eye? He's a whigger? Does he come from a bad family?
You may be able to make little changes that will get them to accept him. It's all about willingness to compromise.
Remember, your parents love you and just want what's best for you. Try to find out what it is they are trying to protect you from and heed thier warnings!
Best of luck.
2006-09-15 08:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Billy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfect marriage material.
2006-09-15 08:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋