2006-09-15 08:37:44 · 44 answers · asked by lady looney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you ca n't
if you try to make him stay the relationship will be horrible and he will treat you like crap
If he wants to go then let him go and you move on as well
2006-09-15 08:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by jelli_bean_36 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, ignore everybody who is saying to move on and forget it. That's crazy talk! I'm in the EXACT same position as you are. Stay in the picture, no matter how small it might seem. Don't make it look like you're trying so hard. Do the things that you know he'll appreciate and that'll make him remember how great you are. To move on and forget about him (which by the the way will never happen anytime this decade) is completely insane. Try. If you love him don't let go so easily. Maybe he's confused and doesn't know what he wants (my situation). Good luck girl. Hope it works out for you.
2006-09-15 08:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to leave you cannot stop him. It probably would not even be worth trying to stop him. Something is wrong in your relationship if he wants to go, It would probably be best to work on getting over it and finding someone new. Any extreme moves made to save a relationship usually just prolong it and cause more pain for the people involved.
2006-09-15 08:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Stop Him. Let him go. If he comes back, he is yours to keep. If he does not, he was never yours. Problem is, once they go for the first time, they always do it again and again. So the best is for you to get another boyfriend and leave this one. It will save you from a lot of sorrows in the future.
2006-09-15 08:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Just enquiring/ inquiring 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your situation but, if he wants to leave why would you stop him? You can't make a person love you or want to be with you, and if you try it could just make things worse. He could end up hating you! Is that what you want? "If you truly love someone set them free, if they come back chances are it is meant to be". Maybe it is not easy to hear but sometimes that's how it goes!
Good Luck to you!
2006-09-15 08:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he has already made up his mind. I guess the only way of stopping him from leaving now is for you to leave.
2006-09-15 09:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is leaving you let him go. I made that mistake in stopping someone I love very much before & now I think he regrets coming back.
2006-09-15 08:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do. He will either like you or not. He is the person who should make up his mind and should not involve your influence.
Just think, "it wasn't meant to be" if he leaves and move on.
2006-09-15 08:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if any man wants to leave... you cant make him stay... why would u want to? u have to have more self esteem than that. in the words of my favorite singer heather headley..."if you love something you've got to let it go, and if it comes back then it means so more...but if it never do, at least you will know, that it was something you had to go thru to grow"..... LOVE YOU, CHERISH YOU,SPOIL YOU..girl u have to or NOBODY else will...good luck
2006-09-15 08:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by trendsetta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want to stop anyone who wanted to end a relationship with you? I hope you think enough of yourself to want better than someone who had to be persauded or manipulated into staying.
2006-09-15 08:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tamara A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a man to stay if he doesn't want to???? You sound very selfish. If he wants to go he will, and there is nothing you can do to stop him...Why not move on and find someone who really wants to be with you?
2006-09-15 08:42:01 · answer #11 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋