recently ive been feeling lonely and i really wood like a really nice boy friend but all the guys i seem to date end of annoying me an i end up dateing them is this normal
2006-09-15 08:36:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
To be quite honest........most guys are jerks...it's hard to find a really good one out there these days......yes, i've been married going on 11 yrs. and it hasn't been easy........i'm feel like i'm lucky that i have a man that DOES NOT cheat...and comes home every day straight from work and wants and likes to be in my company. THAT doesn't mean we have the perfect marriage but i still feel pretty lucky??????????????? First of all, i would take it SLOW.........we got married in 6 months but then again...my Mom got married in 3 months and they have been married for 20 yrs.........she said she just KNEW he was the one!!!!!!!!!! Now that is LUCKY!!!!!!!!!!!!! Or just plain KNOWING what you want!
2006-09-15 08:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by VICTORIA L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Figure out what you want in life and a partner and go from there. I tell my husband that I knew he was the right person for me because he didn't annoy me. Everyone else did. Don't get too caught up in finding someone though. Keeping living your life and someone will come along the way.
2006-09-15 15:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Females are so different to males. Girls want taking out and pampering and romance, whereas lads wanna go out with the lads and get drunk! A stereotype maybe. What i`m trying to say though is girls annoy lads and vice versa. We want different things but you just have to put up with it long enough and youll fall in love and nothing annoys you (well not much) It worked for me. LOVE!!
2006-09-15 15:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by kingbill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right guy will come along, don't worry your pretty little head about it. and when he comes along, don't rush into it, get to know him first make sure you like him and get along with him, you could be saving yourself a lot of heartache that way.
I think everyone should give you a break, your obviously going through a hard time and want somebody to be with, so I think everyone should grow up, afterall you came on here looking for some advice and thats what you should be getting, not abuse.
2006-09-15 15:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by abebibobub2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep dating guys that you aren't really interested in just because you're lonely, then they're going to start realizing how desperate you are, or try to really take advantage of you.
2006-09-15 15:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by April 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah its totally normal. from a guys point of view i have trouble finding a girl who's right. at the end of the day you can just 'go out' with anyone, but you will have to wait til you meet some one you really connect with. it sounds cheesy, but 'connection' is essential for a loving relationship.
2006-09-15 15:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus less on "I want a boyfriend" and put your energy into hobbies. That way you will meet people you have something in common with. When you have something to share, the right person will come along.
2006-09-15 16:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
This is the wrong place to post your ill-fated desire.
Obviously from this request, you've done nothing but make bad decisions.
Perhaps you need to take a good look at yourself and figure out what you need in life other than crying out in a public domain of your wants or needs.
Damn, girl. do yourself a favor and just go buy a vibrator before you wake up and find yourself dead...
2006-09-15 15:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by The Mac 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You pick the kind of boys you want to date, so if you keep getting these kind of boys maybe it is you.
2006-09-15 15:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Classico 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think everyone who is alone wishes they had a boyfriend (or girlfriend) at one time or another. I know I get that way sometimes.
2006-09-15 15:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Kristin H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋