There is a guy who I have a crush on but I don't know if he has girlfriend. The thing is that he is very quiet whenever he is in front of girls but very talkative and cool when he is in front of guys. So what do you think about it??
2006-09-15 08:29:17 · 26 answers · asked by april2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's gay. Good luck!
2006-09-15 08:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The most obvious answer is to ask him, but if you're too shy:
- Look at who he hangs out with. Then ask them if he has a girlfriend.
- Find out if he has a brother or sister around, and ask them if he has a girlfriend.
- Accidentally bump into him, and start up a conversation about something else. Continue this for a few days until you feel more comfortable asking about his personal life.
2006-09-15 08:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jim D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's probably just nervous around girls. If you wanna know if he's taken, ask him. Or else if you are too shy yourself, ask one of his friends and then they might mention to him that you were asking about him, then him knowing that you are interested, he might ask you out. Go for it, you clearly have to make the first move if you want something to happen. Alot of guys are nervous around girls and are scared to make the first move in fear of rejection, so help him out by taking the pressure off, and ask him out sometime. Its not as hard as you think, and its not like you have anything to loose, just something to gain. Plus many guys like it when a girl has that amount of confidence and determination to ask a guy out (cause most girls wait to see if anything happens and end up with the short end of the stick). Try not to put too much pressure on the situation, just have fun with it. If he is taken and says sorry, make a little joke about it, like "well clearly you are taken", and mention how the girl he's with is really lucky, he'll keep you in mind when they break up and he wants a better woman. Go for it girl!
2006-09-15 08:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope..i dont think so....he dont have a girlfriend because i do the same thing talkative when im talking to my friends that guys but everytime im in front of a girl im shy and when im shy in front of girls im a free man the reason for that is i think the girl is going to talk to me as a girl trying to get with me
2006-09-15 08:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you could ask some of the guys he hangs around with. If you don't want to tip your hand that YOU have the crush, say you're asking for a friend or have one of your friends ask his friends. I guess you could just be bold and ask him yourself. That's another option. Just depends on what you're comfortable doing.
2006-09-15 08:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by BethS 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you could ask him if he has a girlfriend. But if you say he is quite around girls and loud around his friends it might be a front so he can get girls. I think maybe he is a little sneaky be careful.
2006-09-15 08:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have you tried asking him? If he says no then you could ask him out.
If you are too shy to come straight out and ask him, which is reasonable, you can always try to bring it up in casual conversation, i.e. What's going on this weekend? Do you have any plans? Most people if they are seeing someone will let it slip pretty easily unless they are trying to cheat.
2006-09-15 08:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is shy around girls..... Ask him and see what he says remember the quiet guys are the one who cause trouble
2006-09-15 08:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tee 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
thats very easy lol.....i assume u like him and this covers two areas in one....just go say hi and ask him hey do u have a girlfriend....he'll say no if he doesnt and automatically assume u like him or are at least a lil interested without actually saying u like him....there u go...u know and he knows ur curious.
2006-09-15 08:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he hangs around with a sertain girl ALOT or u could ask one of his friends or u could just ask him or ask for his screen name to so if u do ask him out u cant see his facial expression .. trust me that makes it alot easier and if ur the couragouse type just go up and ask him out and if he says no do that puupy dog thing u gurls are capable of doing..............hey it works on me everytime
2006-09-15 08:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go up 2 him & ask if he would like 2 catch a movie or bite 2 eat sometime if says i can't that means he has girlfriend.good luck
2006-09-15 08:33:49 · answer #11 · answered by shelmustang 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋