This is weird but, any time I'v had sex it doesn't really feel good. I have been with this guy for about 2 years now. And only one other previsouly. So I don't really know if it is the guy or me...but I hate not really enjoying sex. The rest of our relationship is getting rocky now too. Is there any reason why it doesn't feel good? IDK what to do....he just gets so mad now...
2006-09-15 08:24:49 · 11 answers · asked by fable_creature 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may want to talk to a doctor. If it's painful physically, it may be something that you need to look into. If you're just not into it mentally, you should still talk to a professional about it.
Not to say that it's you, but you've been with two different guys and you didn't enjoy it with either.
Talking to a professional will give you some options to hopefully correct this, and then once you start enjoying it, I'm sure you'll wear your boyfriend out.
2006-09-15 08:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to evaluate your feelings for the relationship. If you don't have the same feelings for him as you did when you first started. That could be the reasoning for it. But, sometimes you have to take a stand and a try a little something with someone else. To see whether or not it is you. It may not seem right but, sometimes you have to do what you can in order to really figure out where you are.
2006-09-15 08:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by kitty kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to go to a sex therapist and you need to see a shrink. Seriously, it's like the tip of the iceberg but worse. There is a reason for romance and it looks like the romance is somewhere else. Don't take it the wrong way. A good shrink can help you for many things. It's not easy to mend a rocky relationship, but it can be done if both participate.
2006-09-15 08:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a many number of reasons.
Are you emotionally excited to be having sex? Is there enough lubrication? Are you compatile with each others size? Is he too big or too small? Have you tried different positions?
You have to remember that the most powerful sex organ is the brain. So unless you have a physical abnormality inthe genetalia region, it might be that you just don't want to with this guy.
The way to test this is ask yourself if you enjoy masturbating. If so, the problem might rest in the relationship.
Best of luck!
2006-09-15 08:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Billy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you need to discuss this, regardless of how smooth or rocky your relationship may be. You must explore new and various techniques and positions that will bring you the satisfaction you desire and deserve. And the only way to resolve this is to pursue the matter together.
It should not be a case of determining who is at fault. Rather, you should be concentrating on the things that will bring you closer as a couple.
2006-09-15 08:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are love him. But you aren't IN LOVE with him.
You can't enjoy sex if you don't feel deep feelings for the person you are with. sit down and think about what you really want.
i mean it's probably not feeling good either because you feel guilt or simply because he sucks in bed. HAHAHAHA
good luck
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2016-10-01 00:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by wiemer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get with me and it will be all right
2006-09-15 08:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to work harder to keep the line reeled in
2006-09-15 09:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Cornflakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doing it wrong
2006-09-15 08:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by tacoma_fast_ball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋