I am a mother of a very willful and stubborn boy. But I use a technique to subdue him; I spank his butt and “miss” my hand a little further into his nuts. Every time I use this, he does what I told him to do. I only “miss” when needed, and it works!!! Don’t you think mothers should just start using this technique of mine? I mean as long as it works why not?
The problem is, he is now 9 years old, and I think he is starting to suspect I do it on purpose, at what age do you think I should stop using this technique?
2006-09-15 08:17:26 · 37 answers · asked by angelina_hg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Soon or the boy might start getting confused about how his mother should touch him.
2006-09-15 08:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Miss k 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd say you should stop...9 years ago, hitting a child is never the solution, how difficult he or she gets! Your kind of hitting is just sick, but then again so is every kind of abuse. "as long as it works why not?" Damn women, where's your brain gone? I wonder what someone from social services would say about your "technique".
You'll never calm a child down by hitting them, it might seem like it, but you're only making matters worse, chances are, your kid will hit his kids later and so on.
I hope someone stops you, because what you're doing is just wrong!
2006-09-15 08:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-15 08:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think you should be doing that. It could serious injury even if your not hitting very hard. I have a son and I don't care what he does it could never be bad enough to deserve being hit in the nuts. I want my son to have grand children for me one day. I think you need to seek some help.
2006-09-15 08:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by missfinley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitting his nuts can be very dangerous..you may wind up hurting him. Certainly a sound spanking can be very effective..not for all children but for some....I got my bare bottom spanked til I was a teenager...when i was 14 I got caught shop lifting..my mother took a thick leather belt to my bare bottom and it was very effective..It is really unecessary and dangerous to tap his nuts.
2006-09-15 08:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't hit his nuts period you jacka*s. You are either gonna make him sterile or cause him to have masochistic fantasies of his mother punching his nuts. Your really sick to keep doing this to him. Why don't you just slap his face if he is that unreasonable (or even spank his *** really, really hard). You should stop hitting your son's balls because you are gonna screw him up, sexually. You are raising the next psycho rapist you idiot. You should give you kid up for adoption you twisted bastard
2006-09-15 08:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Slappin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you continue to touch your child"s genitalia inappropriately,you should be imprisoned. It seems to be a poor punishment technique, How can you be sure that the reason he stops the bad behavior,is not because you are sexually stimulating him? STOP IT NOW!
2006-09-15 08:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your seriously abusive and your lucky that no one has called CPS on you. Did your parents abuse you? Your son is going to end up hating you in the long run. You have completely crossed the line. You need to call Dr. Phil for intense counseling.
2006-09-15 08:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by JenM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U shouldn't use it at all! Do you know you could do serious damage to his reproductive system, even cause erectile dysfunction??
Stop now my dear b4 you do cause serious damage! If u must spank him to get your point across, and i know this sounds much worse than it is, use a belt. This too gets the point across and you save your hand.
2006-09-15 08:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by jelli_bean_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either this is a joke you're pulling on the readers or you're a really sick person and someone should turn you in to the authorities, and should have turned you in years ago.. Spanking in itself is illegal but doing sexual things on purpose, and especially from a mother (relative) you should have been put in jail long ago.
2006-09-15 08:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What in the hell is wrong with you? What kind of mother are you? Don't you know you can mess him up like that. That area is very sensitive. There are other ways to punish a child.... you act like a crack head or something!!!
2006-09-15 08:20:18 · answer #11 · answered by icyu_nvme 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋