he told me about the other women he said it was a mistake she wanted to get an abortion but something else had happen he do not want me to leave him he begged me for forgiveness should i take him back he explained the whole situation to me he said that he regrets his mistakes and he is truley sorry what should i do or what type of question should i ask to know if he really is telling the truth.
2006-09-15 08:16:51 · 22 answers · asked by Try So Hard.................. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow!! he told you about it?? He was actually man enough to confess to you? Look at it this way... if my man cheated on me and confessed, I would feel more appreciated. He loves me enough to be honest and realized to himself that he messed up. No one's perfect, and I'm not saying that he was right for doing it, but if he truly confesses and apologizes for his mistakes, and it's his first time cheating, there is a good chance that it'll never happen again. He realizes what he did, and saw that there was a possibility that he was going to lose the one person he truly loves. I'm not telling you to stay, what I'm telling you is try to see the situation from both sides, yours and his. Is your relationship worth forgiving and moving on with each other, or was the four years of you relationship a waste of time? No relationship is going to be perfect and without problems.
2006-09-15 08:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Chocolate_Flayva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. Most men that cheat have low self esteem. If there was anything about them they wouldn't have to cheat or lie about it. Some of these men just enjoy hiding it. Those type of men are liars. I would say move on with your life. The woman he had a child with will probably try to hold on to him with that. If he cheated on you for her he'll do it to her also. Find someone that is true to god first and you'll find someone that doesn't cheat. Some men that cheat also have hidden sexual problems. If they can't keep it in their pants I'd say get out of the relationship before you really get hurt. The other women might think she's getting a prize but she's getting a booby trap. I know there are some men that truly make mistakes and are sorry for them. The only thing that could change this is prayer.
2006-09-15 08:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Becky M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i was in the same situation and i didn't take the guy back. Yes he is begging for your forgiveness and telling you it was a mistake. But truly you don't know what he is telling the other girl. But really how is it a mistake to put your dick in another chick, what did she fall on it accidentally? After this you won't be able to trust him and you will become insecure. And some guys believe just because they have a baby with someone they can still sleep with her and don't call it cheating. I know you may love and care about him but he wasn't worried about loving your or thinking about your feelings. So leave his *** alone and let him be a father to his child.
2006-09-15 08:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gosh could things get any worse. He cheats on you and he gets the girl pregnant. No matter what he says what's done is done. And that baby is here to stay and there's no getting around that. He made his bed so let him lay in it. Let him go and move on with your life, let this be a lesson learned for the both of you. Take care and good luck.
2006-09-15 08:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiesha - well, I know a 4 year relationship is hard to walk away from but, gf, this one is a loser. You deserve someone who will not cheat on you. Once a cheater....always a cheater. Leave this guy and find your prince. Good luck.
2006-09-15 08:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not desire him you could love him & migth be the daddy of your toddler yet as a adult men he's not something a adult men who promises & promises & which have cheat merely isn't a good adult men..... you do not opt to pass see that different toddler why??? damage your self move on & stay your life ignore about him & the bunch of fake promises because if he LOVES then you definitely why??? dishonest to boot he knew he had a courting & a son then the position is the affection????? merely ignore about him seem after your toddler & pass to toddler help so a minimum of he can help you helping your toddler are not getting money from him money order or toddler help order that way it received't influence you !!! strong success & strong success looking a real adult men !!! :)
2016-10-16 00:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay right where I'm at and he would be the one leaving. It wasn't a "mistake" he willingly knew what he was doing by sleeping with her.
2006-09-15 08:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He got her pregnant WHILE still with you? Or was it before? If "while" with you then that's just wrong and you should leave.
If it was before, --- well leave him too. LOL. There's no good outcome to this. You're better off with someone else.
2006-09-15 08:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? RUN as fast as you can and don't ever look back! You will have nothing but drama, and you deserve so much better than someone who cheats on you! And since he didn't use protection, he could've given you any number of diseases!
I repeat: RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-15 08:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by j_conway83 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave his ***. He is begging because he probably needs someone to help him support the child.
2006-09-15 08:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Kenya 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋